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Does God ever give up on us?

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Even when we keep making the same mistakes... does God ever leave us or give up on us? What if we really love Him but are struggling with getting it right? When we worship or hear Christian songs and it brings tears because we really love Jesus. We are always drawn to worship by the Holy Spirit. In even those times has God left us or given up? Can we still go to hell while worshipping Jesus? Just wondering what others may think.
 
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"And the Lord, he it is that doth go before thee; he will be with thee, he will not fail thee, neither forsake thee: fear not, neither be dismayed." Deut 31:8

"Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me." Heb 13:5-6

"Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." I Peter 5:7

"Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need." Heb 4:16

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Even when we keep making the same mistakes... does God ever leave us or give up on us? What if we really love Him but are struggling with getting it right? When we worship or hear Christian songs and it brings tears because we really love Jesus. We are always drawn to worship by the Holy Spirit. In even those times has God left us or given up? Can we still go to hell while worshipping Jesus? Just wondering what others may think.
That you love and worship Jesus is a grace given by him and evidences you are his. (There have been times I felt abandoned by our Lord, but he had not.)

That you keep making mistakes and are struggling provides the opportunity for you to trust in his salvation and for him to give more grace. It is not evidence of you not being his beloved daughter.

Remember the story (end of Mark 4) of Jesus asleep in the boat and the disciples in terror for there lives. The disciples say to Jesus what every one of his children probably say at some point: "Teacher, do you not care we are perishing?" NewHope, he does care and he really is in the boat with you. Do not fear and fight on.

Grace to you.
 
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Hospes, You have no idea how you have encouraged me. I am in tears. Thank you so much for reminding me of Gods love and faithfulness to us. I wish I could hug you:)! Thank you so very much! I needed your kind words today and Gods truth spoken in my life:)
 
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Even when we keep making the same mistakes... does God ever leave us or give up on us? What if we really love Him but are struggling with getting it right? When we worship or hear Christian songs and it brings tears because we really love Jesus. We are always drawn to worship by the Holy Spirit. In even those times has God left us or given up? Can we still go to hell while worshipping Jesus? Just wondering what others may think.

I truly believe that God has not and will not give up on us no matter how many times we sin or how often we continually do. That's not to say that His grace is a license to continue on our old ways, but that we must strive to pursue Him instead of sin. That we continually confess and continually repent in order to restore that fellowship with Him. Praise God that we have the blood of the Lamb, Jesus Christ, as our advocate when we /do/ sin.
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."
If He Himself commands us to not be discouraged/give up.. and since He Himself is not a liar, then He Himself would not give up on us after commanding us to do the same. We have to die to ourselves every single day..I would even venture to say..we have to die to ourselves every second. Our will needs to die so that His will can be done. My old self and its ways before I accepted Jesus Christ? That person should be dead now because it's been crucified with Christ. And /I/ no longer life [the selfish 'old man' part of me], but Christ lives in me. I'm not perfect- I still need to die to many areas in my life. But we are all a work-in-progress. This dying to self doesn't just happen over night. So please don't be too hard on yourself or let the enemy discourage you and accuse you in your work-in-progress journey when God is still doing a work in your heart, mind, and life. We don't just become 'perfect' like Jesus Christ and He totally understands that. That's why we rely on Jesus Christ, as our Advocate and atoning sacrifice to wash us clean again so that we can 'start over' and pursue Him instead and run away from sin and temptation with His strength and power to overcome temptations. So..do I think God gives up on us when we habitually sin? Nope. But the enemy sure would love to make us think that, thus achieving its ultimate purpose of 'kill, steal, and destroy' and separating us from God as much as it can so that we think that God no longer cares for us.
You know the beautiful thing about God? Is that He is our Heavenly Father. Mom's and dads? I'm sure their kids mess up and habitually mess up but does that ever erase their love for them? Not a chance- or at least, it shouldn't. Because they are their children. And their children cannot earn their love. God already loved us before we were even in the womb. I can see it in the eyes of new fathers when they find out their wife is pregnant and they kiss their stomach and they have such love for them that the baby never even had to earn in the first place, simply because s/he is his child. ♥ : )

 
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Even when we keep making the same mistakes... does God ever leave us or give up on us? What if we really love Him but are struggling with getting it right? When we worship or hear Christian songs and it brings tears because we really love Jesus. We are always drawn to worship by the Holy Spirit. In even those times has God left us or given up? Can we still go to hell while worshipping Jesus? Just wondering what others may think.
Great answers from everyone. Old dev is really beating up on the children of God of late. I am convinced that God cares more about our love for Him than our "getting it right". Getting it right is important, but if we love Him He can work with us because our hearts are open to Him, even if change is hard, as it often is. But if we get the superficials right while our hearts are cold toward Him, is that not what the Lord referred to when He said,

On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’
And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’ -Matt 7:22-23

Those folks seemed to be getting it right, but their hearts were not His. Thus Jesus says to them, "I never knew you". "Knew" there is ginosko, signifying not head knowledge or ability to perform, but a deep union of heart. It's the Mary/Martha thing.

This is precisely why Jesus came - because we could not keep the law. In the Sermon, He takes the law that people were trying to keep, or delusionally thought they were keeping, and he takes it to the Nth degree - thus it's not merely committing the crime that's wrong, nurturing the thought in our minds is as well - to show that it's impossible for us to keep the law, because we are cut off from God. Thus we need a Savior. "The law is the tutor that leads men to Christ" - Gal 3. The whole thrust of the Sermon is away from works and into deep relationship with the Lord.

Old dev wants to get us down, and he's very skilled at what he does. But the power of the grace Christ purchased for us on the Cross is greater. We must avail ourselves of it. Thus the verse TTurt quoted, about going confidently to the throne of grace "for help in time of need". Thus Rom. 8, where instead of the condemnation which after Rom 7 we know we deserve, we are met with an updraft of grace. This is why Paul says in Rom 6.14 that sin cannot dominate us, because grace has put us on ground it cannot reach. "God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them" - 2cor 5.

If you love Jesus, He is not going to abandon you. He is both Author and Finisher of your faith (Heb 13). He is Faithful and True. Keep looking to Him and don't let anything disrupt your love and your worship.

The devil is a liar. Don't listen to him. Give him no place.

I've gone on here, but it was as much for me as for anyone.
 
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short answer- NO He doesn't. God is eternal, so he's got all the time and what is a long time with us is a blink of an eye for Him.
We are weak and human but He is God and nothing is impossible for Him.
If you've repented and been baptised and working out your salvation then all your sins past present and future have been covered by Jesus blood on the cross. He will give you the grace and will to obey. For some of us it looks harder than others but we musn't compare ourselves with others just be encouraged and proclaim Christ's victory.

A good idea is to keep reading the Bible getting the Word in your heart and also asking other christians to pray for you if you currently having a hard time. We all go through trials and tribulations, it is to make us humble before Him.
 
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God will never give up on us, ever. He is always right there, ready to forgive all of our sins and give us grace upon grace to sanctify us. No matter how much we sin God is always there to forgive us and reconcile us to himself. Yet one who is in Christ will not continue in unrepentant sin perpetually, as the Holy Spirit will convict that soul and lead them to repentance. So though Christians do sin, we have the Holy Spirit with us who, over time, sanctifies us and makes us emissaries of the love of God.

That said, it is still possible for us to give up on God. We have free will and can renounce Christ if we so choose. Outside of Christ there is no salvation, so to choose to renounce your relationship with him is to choose damnation. Yet even then God is always there with open arms, like the Father of the prodigal son, waiting to welcome us back home. No amount of sin will separate you from God, only a permanent renunciation of Christ can do that.
 
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Jesus said that He will never leave us or forsake us. The Bible says that while we were sinner, Christ died for our sins. Nothing can separate us from the love of God. How can God give up on us, when he did not spare his only Son, the Lord Jesus, but gave him for our sins?
 
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