1 Peter 3:7 Speaks of husbands prayers being hindered
I wanted to add to this above what is posted in part concerning a husbands prayers here since it mirrors the same thing in Mal 2:13
The LORD's words to husbands here
Mal 2:13
And this have
ye done again,
covering the altar of the LORD
with tears, with weeping, and with crying out,
insomuch that he
regardeth not the offering any more,
or receiveth it
with good will at your hand.
Mal 2:14
Yet ye (the husbands)
say, Wherefore?
Then He points out that He is a witness between the husband and the wife
Because the LORD hath
been witness between thee
and the wife of thy youth,
against whom
thou hast
dealt treacherously:
yet is she
thy companion,
and the wife
of thy covenant.
So the husbands have dealt treacherously against them
Whereas Paul says
Col 3:19
Husbands, love your wives,
and be
not bitter against them.
Peter likewise speaks to the treatment of ones wife as it relates to his own prayers being hindered (as a very possible cause)
Following through with Peters words to husbands
In Mal 2:13 ...The LORD
acknowledges the tears of the husbands before his altar and all their cryings out unto Him and follows it up indicating a kind of silence from heaven thing going on between the two
The LORD says....
he regardeth not the offering any more,
nor receiveth it
with good will at your hand in verse 13
And very specifically because of the treacherous treatment of the wife in verse 14.
Peter also seems to indicate the potential of the same thing occuring among them, saying...
1Peter 3:7 Likewise,
ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge,
giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and
as being heirs together of the grace of life;
that your prayers be not hindered.
Which introduces the possibility that their prayers can be hindered as it relates to the dishounering of their own wives, the Lord being a witness between them.
Oftentime on forums awhile back there was alot of discussions on how husbands were the heads of their wives (which is not untrue) but would push their headship of the woman in more of an ultimate power type deal and in it forget they have a head.
And so He is making them (the husbands) accountable to their own head (in this situation). As the husband is head of her (the wife) one greater then the husband is alo the head of him and unto whom he is answerable. The negative result of being answerable is ironically "unanswered prayers" (or as Peter indicates the husbands prayers hindered) versus heaven opened.
So whether his own prayers go through (or heaven is shut up) the hinderance for husbands has to do with how the husband treats his own wife (the weaker vessel).
The wife then (or so it seems) has somewhat of a refuge from her own husband (by Him) as it doesnt seem like a husband will proceed any further if he does not check himself (in relation to her).
Which is sort of like a built in bargaining chip against his unchecked power (as it relates to proceeding any further with the Lord) as played (not by the wife) but of the Lord (and on her behalf).
Both places seem to mirror the same thing.
I have stated before I believe the husband's role is a far more difficult one. His role is held up to the standard of Jesus Christ, who is the head of the church. And just as Christ is unto the church (in his dying love for her) that same model is for the men as an example towards their own wives. Those are some mighty big shoes to fill (and all in the meekness of Christ).
Even as Christ was subject to His Father who said, I do always those things that please him
In respects to prayers which would apply equally to husbands, John says
1John 3:22 And
whatsoever we ask, we receive of him,
because we keep his commandments,
and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.
Here is Jesus commandment
John 15:12 This is my commandment,
That ye love one another,
as I have loved you.
Which is includes Husbands towards their wives
Ephes 5:25 Husbands, love your wives,
even as Christ also
loved the church,
and gave himself for it;
That was too long I know, I actually trimmed it down and did not amount to a much shorter post.