"If one is single at an older age, rejoice!" --Rising_Suns
This depends on why one is single at an older age. See MD: "It is why some who delay marriage past a certain age do end up being single for life, it happens! ... even if that is not what they had intended. At times I think it is either some sort of fear of making a mistake or just so particular in what they are looking for they price themselves out of the market."
I know several people who fall into this category. They spend so much time trying to discern their vocation because they want to do what is right that they never choose one and they fall into a drifting state that is very difficult to leave. Then they get to be 40 and regret their life decision not to make a decision, but it is too late because they are very set in their ways and find it very difficult to change (though nothing is definitely too late, there is always the mercy of God and miracles too).
This is why one should, when looking at two good paths, choose one to follow at some point and see where it takes one. If it is right for one, one will find the way straight and peaceful. If it is not, one will know because one will not be at peace, and then one can turn back and take the other path.
"Why worry about where/when/if you will find "the One", when, in reality, He is right before you, and is already yours to have!"--Rising_Suns
True. Pray, hope and don't worry.
This depends on why one is single at an older age. See MD: "It is why some who delay marriage past a certain age do end up being single for life, it happens! ... even if that is not what they had intended. At times I think it is either some sort of fear of making a mistake or just so particular in what they are looking for they price themselves out of the market."
I know several people who fall into this category. They spend so much time trying to discern their vocation because they want to do what is right that they never choose one and they fall into a drifting state that is very difficult to leave. Then they get to be 40 and regret their life decision not to make a decision, but it is too late because they are very set in their ways and find it very difficult to change (though nothing is definitely too late, there is always the mercy of God and miracles too).
This is why one should, when looking at two good paths, choose one to follow at some point and see where it takes one. If it is right for one, one will find the way straight and peaceful. If it is not, one will know because one will not be at peace, and then one can turn back and take the other path.
"Why worry about where/when/if you will find "the One", when, in reality, He is right before you, and is already yours to have!"--Rising_Suns
True. Pray, hope and don't worry.
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