anon5354 said:
That's assuming...that you have a chance to react to an attack in the first place. This would probably be unlikely if criminals expect that everyone has a gun, just as how criminals (without aid of guns) ambush their victims so that they dont' have a chance to fight back.
Yes, some criminals ambush the victim, but others (especially in sexual assaults and kidnappings) "test" the victim first to see how easily she's intimidated. In these cases, the attacker isn't going to ambush (in the sense of "killing") the victim anyway; these attackers want their victims alive, at least for a while.
And statistics don't support the idea of ambushes either. In states that issue concealed carry permits, violent crime tends to go down, not up.
anon5354 said:
You are also assuming that all criminals out there are trying to kill you, which they are not in most cases. Considering that a robber attack you out of no where just to get your money, in what senario will you more likely be alive? A stab in the chest, or a shot in the chest?
But that's what this whole discussion is about: protecting yourself from grave bodily harm. (Which to me, includes rape and assault as well as murder.)
If all they want is my money, they can have it. I'm not risking a shootout OR a stabbing over my wallet or my credit cards. I hope you won't either. Your loved ones don't need your wallet, they need you to come home from the incident safe and sound. But if the criminal doesn't turn and run with the money as soon as I hand it over, I assume he wants more than my money. If someone breaks into my home in the middle of the night when he's aware that the house is occupied, I assume he wants more than my money.
anon5354 said:
I think things like pepper spray, teasers and proper self-defense technique or martial art techniques should be able to deter criminals whose goal is not to kill their victim.
Martial arts are great, but they take time to master, and some styles are too competition and exercise oriented to be useful for self defense. And as far as I know there's nothing to keep a criminal from learning martial arts, so once again you're at a standoff, at best. (Imagine you're 69 years old and need a cane to walk. It's late at night and two strong young guys in their 20's are trying to break down your door. Still want to rely on martial arts?) I'll agree that pepper spray can be a useful weapon, but on the other hand, it may not stop an assailant who's so full of meth that he's feeling no pain. And I was also under the impression that tasers only give you one shot; if you miss, you don't get a second chance. There's no one weopon (including guns) that's ideal for every self-defense situation. But that's not a reason to rule out any weapon, either.
And just curious--I do hope you'll respond to this--how can you know for sure when an attacker doesn't intend to kill you? Just because he tells you he won't?
anon5354 said:
My point is that there will always be a status quo between the attacker and the defender.
Well, not if you disarm the law-abiding folks. (Realistically, you'll never be able to disarm the criminals.) Disarming those who obey the law only tips the balance of power in favor of those who won't obey. And that's not even taking into account the issue I brought up in my last two posts, that of criminals who deliberately target victims they can physically overpower. Why deprive those potential victims of a tool that would put them on a more equal footing with their attackers? Why deprive any law-abiding citizen?