Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (4)

[Im_A]

Ummm, if you didn't live in Missouri...

match maker, match maker, give me a match, bake me a...umm yea i can't remember the rest of lyrics

 

[Redstiletto]

match maker, match maker, give me a match, bake me a...umm yea i can't remember the rest of lyrics

It's match maker match maker make me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch

 

[Im_A]

It's match maker match maker make me a match, find me a find, catch me a catch

ahh. i was close?

 

[Redstiletto]

LOL!!!


AHHH!!! Why does my crush have to be the hottest man alive?? He is so full of life, and I just want to hold him in my arms and tell him the world will be right so long as he believes! *sigh* yes i am a hopeless romantic, leave me be

 

[Im_A]

LOL!!!


AHHH!!! Why does my crush have to be the hottest man alive?? He is so full of life, and I just want to hold him in my arms and tell him the world will be right so long as he believes! *sigh* yes i am a hopeless romantic, leave me be

ha, that guy would be lucky man.

 

[Redstiletto]

ha, that guy would be lucky man.

He was far more a lucky man before i even met him.

Perhaps thats my problem, i am not good enough for him. That is why my crush is one sided.

 

[Im_A]

He was far more a lucky man before i even met him.

Perhaps thats my problem, i am not good enough for him. That is why my crush is one sided.

tell this guy. i mean, you can't know if your not "good enough for him" unless you tell him.

 

[Redstiletto]

tell this guy. i mean, you can't know if your not "good enough for him" unless you tell him.

Yes I can, and I do. And he has to know, I am thinking he is skirting around it because he doesnt want to hurt my feelings.

 

[soccerdad66]

Perhaps thats my problem, i am not good enough for him. That is why my crush is one sided.

That's a great attitude Why don't you let him make that decision?

 

[Im_A]

Yes I can, and I do. And he has to know, I am thinking he is skirting around it because he doesnt want to hurt my feelings.

sometimes guys are pretty dumb or just have a hard time with picking up/reading signs.

 

[Redstiletto]

That's a great attitude Why don't you let him make that decision?

LOL! Why get my hopes up for something I know would never go my way? *shrug* I have enough heart break.

 

[Im_A]

LOL! Why get my hopes up for something I know would never go my way? *shrug* I have enough heart break.

well if you have enough heart break, then that means you can take the risk to have some more, because you never know, you may get shocked.

 

[soccerdad66]

LOL! Why get my hopes up for something I know would never go my way? *shrug* I have enough heart break.

well if you have enough heart break, then that means you can take the risk to have some more, because you never know, you may get shocked.

I don't know, maybe she's right, maybe she should just settle.

 

[Redstiletto]

You know what is funny. I look through everything, and it is so obvious who my crush is...I am surprised no one has figured it out. I am not really good and hiding my tracks.

 

[Im_A]

You know what is funny. I look through everything, and it is so obvious who my crush is...I am surprised no one has figured it out. I am not really good and hiding my tracks.

well if you haven't hidden your tracks, turn his head and let him see the tracks.

 

[Redstiletto]

I have already told him of my crush, he knows, although I told him a long while ago.

If it was right and he crushed back he would say something, he just has a lot on his plate, and i do not want to burden hm with more, especially if he doesnt have interest back

 

[Im_A]

I have already told him of my crush, he knows, although I told him a long while ago.

If it was right and he crushed back he would say something, he just has a lot on his plate, and i do not want to burden hm with more, especially if he doesnt have interest back

ahh i see well hey, at least you did try.

 

[Redstiletto]

ahh i see well hey, at least you did try.

Yes, and now the whole wide world of CF knows why i am a delutional hopeless romantic

 

[soccerdad66]

You know what is funny. I look through everything, and it is so obvious who my crush is...I am surprised no one has figured it out. I am not really good and hiding my tracks.

Not obvious to me, but I don't follow anyone's post.

I can understand not wanting to get hurt, but I've also missed out when I didn't try. Maybe it was God's will, but that's a different topic.

 

[555onetwothreefour]

I have already told him of my crush, he knows, although I told him a long while ago.

If it was right and he crushed back he would say something, he just has a lot on his plate, and i do not want to burden hm with more, especially if he doesnt have interest back

1. If it's been a "long while" ago, how do you know he doesn't think you may have just moved past it by now?

2. Falling in line with the first point; how do you know he doesn't have interest back unless you at least refresh him memory that you still care?

3. If it's a big enough crush, and you're still hanging on to it, shouldn't you get it out of the way and tell him, again, how you feel? Ultimately it's your call to what you really want, but the longer you put something off, the further it's going to get away from you.