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The more I think about it the more this crush needs to be crushed before it crushes me.
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And if I had a nickel for every time I've heard that sentiment in this thread...I have a huge crush of a guy with the initials J.C..
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HOORAY! Hahah that must be the smallest town ever, does it fit in your pocket? well.. keep us updated (well at least me) on if you hear from him and stuff. Oooh I bet you are all butterflied!!
I am going crazy... lol.. Johnathan said he probably wouldn't see Layton until today so... idk... I might get a call while I'm at work
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I am with you on that one. Somedays I like having a crush but most days I would rather just be dating! 
stephanieamber
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OK so since we are discussing crushes, let's discuss this: since it is a crush and is not a huge declaration of commitment or anything.. how easy is it for you to actually drop a crush? For me it's fairly easy, perhaps because I crush so often and so lightly.
PS Tinker, what's your name?
PS Tinker, what's your name?
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for me, if it was just a light attraction it was very easy to drop. but if it was a big crush it would take a while to get over
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Hmm.. so is there a difference between a "crush" and "liking someone"? Because I use the language of.. "I crush often, but rarely actually like people." to me there's a difference.. what about you ?
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If I do develop an interest/crush on someone, I'm pretty quick to find something I don't like, and that crush is gone quickly lol
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I am the reverse. I like people every now and then, but the infatuation of crushes is not frequent at all for me.
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This crush would be kind of easy to drop probably if something were to happen because we don't really know anything about each other but I would probably wonder later what would've happened and where my life might've gone if we had gotten together.
My name is Mallory... but people call me Mally.
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meh i think its all semantics. I do think its possible to be attracted to someone without it being a big deal. you can call that a small crush if you want to. In those situations its not like my heart would break if i found out he wasn't attracted to me or that he was dating someone, but there was some interest.
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HE CALLED!
Lol I am so giddy right now it's insane! hahaha
Anyways I need to compose myself... I am still at work.. lol
So he called and he talked to me for a few minutes, he said he was very happy we ran into each other and that he would like to see me again! He's so sweet! He told me that he would come down here where I live and take me out sometime soon! And then as soon as we started talking one of my co-workers came and asked me to finish this one rebuild that we have had since last week and he has even started on it... so Idk how I'm supposed to finish it if it hasn't even been started... grrrr makes me so mad... cause he's supposed to be the one doing it... so I had to get off the phone... but he said he would call me back and asked me what time I got off work... I told him 9pm and he said he would call at 9:01 lol.
I can't wait!
Lol I am so giddy right now it's insane! hahaha
Anyways I need to compose myself... I am still at work.. lol
So he called and he talked to me for a few minutes, he said he was very happy we ran into each other and that he would like to see me again! He's so sweet! He told me that he would come down here where I live and take me out sometime soon! And then as soon as we started talking one of my co-workers came and asked me to finish this one rebuild that we have had since last week and he has even started on it... so Idk how I'm supposed to finish it if it hasn't even been started... grrrr makes me so mad... cause he's supposed to be the one doing it... so I had to get off the phone... but he said he would call me back and asked me what time I got off work... I told him 9pm and he said he would call at 9:01 lol.
I can't wait!
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it is very small and i am thinking of squashing it completely because i don't know where God wants me to go with this one.
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WhiteFaith
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I have a crush on someone, but it's unrequited, has lasted too long, and is something I should really get over
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for me, its very easy to drop a crush, big or small. if me or the other side isn't pursuing the crush for whatever reason, then the crush isn't worth too much from either myself or her. plus i have yet to see the difference between crushing on someone then not pursuing that crush, and then me crushing on someone else as well which inevitably happens just because crushing on someone doesn't mean i'm committed to them. so its evident to say that when i crush, the feelings are comparable to having one foot in the door and one foot out of the door.
when i pursue someone, both feet are in the door and i'm not pursuing anyone else. it can be challenging for me to drop a pursuit that hasn't yet became a relationship but if the pursuit isn't going anywhere, i do give up on it over time. its even more harder for me to give up a relationship. many a times i stayed in some relationship too long than what i should have. some relationships i have been in, seemed to come with an expiration date that i or she failed to see but its also hard to see that stamp when one really wants what they have.
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HE CALLED!
Lol I am so giddy right now it's insane! hahaha
Anyways I need to compose myself... I am still at work.. lol
So he called and he talked to me for a few minutes, he said he was very happy we ran into each other and that he would like to see me again! He's so sweet! He told me that he would come down here where I live and take me out sometime soon! And then as soon as we started talking one of my co-workers came and asked me to finish this one rebuild that we have had since last week and he has even started on it... so Idk how I'm supposed to finish it if it hasn't even been started... grrrr makes me so mad... cause he's supposed to be the one doing it... so I had to get off the phone... but he said he would call me back and asked me what time I got off work... I told him 9pm and he said he would call at 9:01 lol.
I can't wait!
so excited for you!!!
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