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Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (4)

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Yeah. I'm the bubbly, energetic, outgoing socially awkward. People who aren't used to me generally don't get me. I'm not very good at small talk and would rather sit down with them right away and talk about deep things...or politics over a cup of coffee. I love people, but when I don't know what to say/do, I turn comical. And weird. One of my friends said that I make one heck of a first impression simply because I'm the type of person who has no idea about where I am spatially...and I really don't care about what I'm doing. If I get them laughing, my life is complete . That said, I'm much better one-on-one with people...over coffee or a chai latte...
Erm. I may be guilty of friend zoning then. That's not a bad thing. Is it?
 
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You can't be condemned for being true to yourself. Maybe I'm a bit cynical about the whole relationship thing though. Those are interesting characteristics you mentioned though, I typically will only chime in when someone gets near the "useless talk/useful talk" barrier. When I'm comfortable, I can be somewhat comical too. Though I may freak people out when I break out the martial arts. xD
 
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. Martial arts! I could never do it, but some of my friends do. It's pretty fantastical . My friend Holly can chop through a cement block....

I still have a crush on dream guy. I think his initials were R.I.
And no.. his name is not Rhode Island.
Any suggestions?
 
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I'm just curious I guess...Personally I think I just defined a "crush" as fancying someone in the first instance Maybe when you get to know that person more the "crush" will develop to some extent...
Ishida said:
Irrational sensations and irrational longings to be with certain people. What causes it is likely physical attraction but there may be other causes. I'm no expert, so it may require further research.
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Im_A said:
Define "good". This "good men" thing has intrigued me because I have never heard of one simple definition. [hope its ok to ask this]
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A good man can and will be defined differently by every single person. For me it is a good man is someone that holds the desires, morals, and features that make me attracted to someone of the opposite sex.
 
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*Smurf* said:
God~Where are all the good men?
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They're right in front of you, pushed onto the back shelves because somebody doesn't want to "risk a great friendship", or else they're completely oblivious to the fact that said friend is perfect for them.
 
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Inkabink said:
Good man - steady, strong, mature, honest, trustworthy, reliable, kind, respectful, brave, responsible, faithful.
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Lets compare my traits to Inks list, shall we?
I'm- strong, honest, trustworthy..... Brave...
And faithful.

I have, five of 'em. Can I still compete?
 
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Im_A said:
Define "good". This "good men" thing has intrigued me because I have never heard of one simple definition. [hope its ok to ask this]
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In this context, I define "good" as a good match. When a woman says she wants a good man, she really means she wants a compatible man. To me, a "good woman" is a woman who I feel attracted to and like to be around, who feels the same way about me.
 
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