Do YOU have a crush on anyone? (4)

[Redstiletto]

I have a question concerning crushes: what if you have a crush on someone and you notice someone else flirting with that person? Does it make you jealous? Or how do you react?

Sorry, I'm on a self-examination journey and this is something I haven't always handled well in the past.

That gets me all sad inside.

 

[pbracing33b]

In light of this one closing, I thought I'd start another one.

So, do you?

No, I don't!!!! I would like to but it just isn't there right now.

 

[Inkachu]

Hi there, Pb

 

[ido]

Shameless, Ink.

 

[Rhamiel]

That gets me all sad inside.

I am the same, but I am getting better, like if I have a crush on someone, and they start a new relationship, I can be happy for them.
but just flirting... yeah, sad

 

[ido]

I have a question concerning crushes: what if you have a crush on someone and you notice someone else flirting with that person? Does it make you jealous? Or how do you react?

Sorry, I'm on a self-examination journey and this is something I haven't always handled well in the past.

It depends on whether or not they know I'm crushing on them. It also depends on whether or not they're crushing back. The third main factor is whether or not they're flirting in return - and whether or not they initiated the flirtation. If they don't know, it doesn't feel good but it doesn't make me jealous. If they do know, then their flirtation with the other person would lead me to believe that they were not interested in me. If they know and they are crushing back - and especially if they initiated the flirtation - then that would be a red flag to me.

 

[TinkerTot]

Wow it's been a long time since I've been on.. lol... Friday night was amazing! We went to eat at this place in downtown OKC and it was just great! It's called Jazmos I think... it was like a huge meal! like 6 or 7 different courses! It was so awesome! Then we walked down by the canal which was all lit up it was beautiful! Then we went back to my place and we did wind up going riding... he hadn't ridden a horse in like 10 years hahaha... I let him ride Chunky cause he's got a pretty easy temperment and I rode Duke... I always ride the Duke... lol it was funny cause I am only like 4'11" and have to use a step-stool to get on Duke but once I was on him I was taller than Layton.. But we rode around and I showed him all of my family's land... we had a great time! He left about 1 in the morning I felt bad and told him I would put him up in a hotel or something but he said he would be fine... and then he called me when he got home! I am just too excited! And next week is my spring break so woohoo... I'm going up to stay with Emma again and he said we would plan something to do. Plus, she's having another party... lol. Good times!

 

[ido]

Glad it went well, TinkerTot.

 

[thekwizzitiveone]

I just realized how few people I have a crush on these days... It's kind of sad.

I just noticed that the forum is only copyrighted till 2008... what does that mean?

 

[sweetlambofgod]

In response to Tink's question, I get extremely jealous if another girl is flirting with the guy I like

 

[stephanieamber]

Wow it's been a long time since I've been on.. lol... Friday night was amazing! We went to eat at this place in downtown OKC and it was just great! It's called Jazmos I think... it was like a huge meal! like 6 or 7 different courses! It was so awesome! Then we walked down by the canal which was all lit up it was beautiful! Then we went back to my place and we did wind up going riding... he hadn't ridden a horse in like 10 years hahaha... I let him ride Chunky cause he's got a pretty easy temperment and I rode Duke... I always ride the Duke... lol it was funny cause I am only like 4'11" and have to use a step-stool to get on Duke but once I was on him I was taller than Layton.. But we rode around and I showed him all of my family's land... we had a great time! He left about 1 in the morning I felt bad and told him I would put him up in a hotel or something but he said he would be fine... and then he called me when he got home! I am just too excited! And next week is my spring break so woohoo... I'm going up to stay with Emma again and he said we would plan something to do. Plus, she's having another party... lol. Good times!

Awww hooray Mally! Can't wait to hear more.. this is so exciting!

 

[abelieverinChrist05]

a bit, i believe

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Most definitely.

 

[brebre]

Hola
I do have to say that I Have the same crush....but anywho....yeah.....

 

[Inkachu]

I don't see any "in love" icons, people. Step it up already.

 

[Psalms34]

I ♥ Jesus

 

[frenzy]

I have a few crushes (people I think are cute).

 

[Quoth]

I just realized how few people I have a crush on these days... It's kind of sad.

I'm currently taking applications to be crushed on.

I just noticed that the forum is only copyrighted till 2008... what does that mean?

No clue.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

I'm currently taking applications to be crushed on.

Inkabink was doing that earlier. I don't think she got any, so you'll probably be out of luck too.

 

[thekwizzitiveone]

Tee hee! Wouldn't that be funny? Like, you walk up to someone and say, "Here's my crush application. Please consider me for your next crush." And walk away.