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Do you have a best friend?

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I have been very blessed to have a close knit set of friends, although we are not as close knit as we once were...families take up much of their time & I am the only single one left but we do try to make a real effort to get together a few times a year to just have a few good laughs. The internet & text messaging help in between...LOL.

Karen - is the BFF - 30 yrs of friendship & counting. We can still talk for hours about nothing...LOL.
Pam - my shrink...she knows me better than me.
Gwen - my defender...she makes me get a backbone & take up for myself.
Kim - she just lets me moan/groan, cry & get it out...then plan what to do next.
Brad/Mike - they make me laugh
Kevin - makes me feel like I can take on the world...even when I know I can't.
 
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i dont have a "best" friend (outside of my wife). i have moved so many times over the last handful of years, that it has been hard to come across a "best" friend. with that said, i do have some very good friends that i can count on for just about anything.
 
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I viewed an amazing series online a while back by Robert Morris entitled "My Best Friend: The Holy Spirit". Consequently, I realized that although I have a couple really close friends, the Holy Spirit's friendship, support and love are always there.
 
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Before I got married it seems like I always had a close friend or two to hang with.
Now it seems like I want to spend the majority of my free time with my family. It's not that I could not have friends if I wanted to, it is just the time commitment I am unwilling to make. Perfectly content enjoying family life at home.
 
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Nope, no best friends since I was about college age. They all moved away, got married, same old story. I spend all my time working and taking care of my son, so I have no "social life".

My cat's a pretty nifty little buddy, though lol.
 
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