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Do you hate your Job?

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DivineFiliation

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Maggie893 said:
What do you do? Or should I say what would you prefer to do? Or maybe what are you skilled to do? Perhaps we can pray you out of that job into another and maybe someone here might have a friend who knows a friend with just the right job.


Oh! And Happy Birthday!!!:hug:

Thanks.

I am a construction project manager.
I would like to be a special education teacher for gifted and talented children AND be a student myself of theology AND music. OR I would like to be a religion teacher at a high school level. I would also like to be a swimming coach.
I'm skilled to probably teach some management courses at a university (as I ahve my masters) but do not have a teaching degree suitable to teach children. I am also skilled at estimating (in construction).
 
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Sometimes I hate my job, like when a person comes in to buy cigs and looks way too young then gets bent outta shape when I ask for ID..I'm like well I don't know for sure how old you are..I am not a good guess..and selling you cigs, just so you will be happy is not worth getting fired over or causing my boss to receive a 10,000 dollar fine..Then they usually whine that everybody knows who they are..and lad-di-dah..I say well I am not everybody, and unless you can show me your picture you're not getting them today.

What I do like about my job is most of the regular customers..They are talkative and open..and they keep comming back because they like us girls that work there...Most of my co-workers are pretty awesome as well..we usually work together to get things accomplished instead of against each other which only causes strife. Also, my boss is my friend so that makes things smooth..She is my boss and tells me what to do, but I don't take it personally.
 
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Wolseley said:
She has hated me ever since, supposedly because she thinks I'm unprofessional, but I think it really boils down to the fact that I don't grovel at her feet simply because she has a Ph.D, which doesn't impress me in the slightest.

Nor should it, really. I'm convinced that I got my Ph.D. by hanging around long enough to make my dissertation committee tired of me. :p
 
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BillH said:
Nor should it, really. I'm convinced that I got my Ph.D. by hanging around long enough to make my dissertation committee tired of me. :p
I have respect for anybody with higher education, for the most part. What I don't like is when somebody (present company excepted, Bill---I'm sure you don't do this :)) uses that education to denegrate somebody else, such as the individual I discussed earlier.

This gal literally signs everything with "Ph.D" after her name---even intra-office memos of five words or less. I suspect she may even have Ph.D-embossed potty paper in her private bathroom at home.

Which is fine, I guess; she should be rightly proud of her achievement, but to me, she's using the doctorate as a tool to elevate herself so she can look down her nose from her lofty educational height at the Lesser Beings She Is Forced To Endure.

And she doesn't really have anything to brag on. Before she was taken on as faculty at our college (before she was promoted to Veep), she was a high school typing teacher. (shrug)

I have a little alphabet I could use behind my name, too, if I so desired; I could put down "BA, CE, SSGT, USAF", for Bachelor of Arts, Combat Engineer, Staff Sergeant, United States Air Force. And, I suppose, I could put down "FBTWHABSA", for Fraternal Brotherhood of Them What Has Actually Been Shot At, something which I'm sure she cannot boast.

It's all a game, actually. I had an instructor tell me my police officer's badge was "nothing but a toy"; to which I smiled and said, "I'll remind you of that the next time you call me to break up a fistfight in one of your classes. I'll shrug and say there's nothing I can do; my badge is only a toy." She stood there and blinked as what I said slowly sank in. Too often, we are seen as an annoyance, someone who's there to harrass people and make their lives miserable, and so we are resented, disliked, disrespected, even actively hated---until somebody gets into a fight, or somebody keels over onto the floor with a medical emergency, or somebody gets locked out in the snow, or somebody trips off on some drug or another, or they get into a traffic accident, or any numer of things---and then we're everybody's best buddy.

Another instructor told me he was a faculty member (like I didn't know), while I was simply "the hired help". Again I smiled, and said, "Two semesters ago, you were a student, which placed you below 'the hired help'. But if you want to make comparisons, that's fine. I saw the sheepskin on your office wall. You have a Bachelor's degree and you are a certified radiologist. Guess what? I have a Bachelor's degree, and I am a certified law enforcement specialist. The only difference between you and me is the field."
 
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Oh, I certainly know some of the people that you're talking about...

It's always good to remind yourself that just because God gave you a particular talent with respect to book learnin' doesn't mean that other people don't work as hard, if not harder than you do with their own particular talents.
 
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Wolseley said:
Academia is a weird place. It's like the Twilight Zone---you leave reality behind when you enter. One of the profs in the math department told me, "Well, she thinks she's above most people because she has an advanced degree," and I replied with my standard answer: "Big deal. Rectal thermometers have advanced degrees, and we all know where those go, don't we?", which sent the prof into gales of hysterical laughter and put a smile on my face for the next hour and a half. :)
Hahaha... A former administrator at my university had all the doors in the stalls removed because they thought that people were conducting homosexual liaisons (probably after reading several examples of a particular strain of bathroom graffiti). The Nazis apparently did the same thing.
 
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Wolseley said:
Academia is a weird place. It's like the Twilight Zone---you leave reality behind when you enter. One of the profs in the math department told me, "Well, she thinks she's above most people because she has an advanced degree," and I replied with my standard answer: "Big deal. Rectal thermometers have advanced degrees, and we all know where those go, don't we?", which sent the prof into gales of hysterical laughter and put a smile on my face for the next hour and a half. :)
LOL!

Michelle
 
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I don't like my bosses. I only LIKE my coworkers. But I love my patients. I have the availability to go to work and just perform basic eye test on my patients - or I can take it one step further and give encouragement, understanding, and hope to people that are losing or have lost their sight. I CHOOSE to like my job. Liking our jobs is sometimes just a matter of seeing the glass half full. There are always things to despise about any job. You just need to look deeper. :):wave:
 
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girlzone04 said:
I don't like my bosses. I only LIKE my coworkers. But I love my patients. I have the availability to go to work and just perform basic eye test on my patients - or I can take it one step further and give encouragement, understanding, and hope to people that are losing or have lost their sight. I CHOOSE to like my job. Liking our jobs is sometimes just a matter of seeing the glass half full. There are always things to despise about any job. You just need to look deeper. :):wave:
aww that is sweet. welcome to board kunfuzedgurl.

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girlzone04 said:
I don't like my bosses. I only LIKE my coworkers. But I love my patients. I have the availability to go to work and just perform basic eye test on my patients - or I can take it one step further and give encouragement, understanding, and hope to people that are losing or have lost their sight. I CHOOSE to like my job. Liking our jobs is sometimes just a matter of seeing the glass half full. There are always things to despise about any job. You just need to look deeper. :):wave:

I wish it was that easy in my instance.
 
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Sometimes I really, really, really, REALLY hate my job. But there are also things about it I love and when I actually manage to deal OK with some of the hateful aspects of it and come home in one piece, it's actually quite a good feeling. And I love the people I work with, the one advantage of working in a highly pressured stressful enviroment is that we become closer to one another as a team and as individuals.
And I'm on holiday for 2 & a half weeks at the moment and that's a LOVELY feeling..
 
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