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John 19:26-27 is in no way appointing Mary as "Mother of the Church". Jesus is simply commanding John to take care of Mary. Joseph was dead at this time, so with the death of Jesus, Mary would have had nothing, since women were not allowed to own property at that time, and she had no husband. It was not establishing Mary as Mother of the Church.
All the words Jesus spoke that John recorded have to do with our salvation. And all that Jesus said had nothing to do with practical matters, such as making final living arrangements for his mother. Indeed, Joseph was deceased at the time, but don’t you believe that Jesus had half-siblings on Joseph’s side? Couldn’t any of Mary’s other children have taken care of her? This was the Jewish custom. Or could it be that Mary remained a virgin after she had given birth to Jesus?
When Jesus addressed his mother from the cross, he called her “Woman”. Jewish men of his time honourably called their mothers “Em” (Mother), especially in public. However, Jesus referred to his mother as a mother when he said to John, “Behold your mother.” Jesus wasn’t thinking of Mary as his mother at all. Rather, he was thinking of her as being the mother of all his disciples. Jesus called his mother “Woman” in allusion to Genesis 3:15. He thought of her as the free Woman of Promise foretold by God to the serpent. It was until the fall that Adam referred to his wife as woman. She was called Eve, which means “mother of all the living”, after her fall from grace. Mary never fell from grace, and so she became the spiritual mother of all the living. She has nourished us with the true manna come down from Heaven and the Bread of Life. And she has nourished us with the living Word of God and the blood by which He has made atonement for our sins and intercedes for us before God as our eternal High Priest. And Mary continues to nourish and strengthen us with the graces we receive through her maternal patronage to help us grow in the image of her divine Son.
Jesus says to John, “Behold you mother.” By the word mother, Jesus has its biblical sense in mind. His act of entrusting John with Mary rests on the status and importance of motherhood in Israelite and Jewish history. According to R.J. Meade, the role of mother was “one of the most important roles a woman could fulfil in ancient Israelite society.” Motherhood was a “social construction,” not a biological necessity, and as such is “constrained and redefined by time and place.” Ruth acted on the instructions of her mother-in law Naomi to lay at the foot of the bed of her lord Boaz. Boaz was a relative of Ruth's dead husband and under the law of Moses when a man died childless, a close relative should marry the widow (Deu_25:5-10) This was to perpetuate the family name and keep the land in the family. It was especially important that when a man died without a son, someone should marry his widow so that a son would be born and the name carried on. Until then Ruth was childless. She and Boaz had a son who fathered Jesse, King David’s father. Biblically, it is unimportant that Obed was Ruth’s firstborn son. Biological ties are of no importance. Ruth’s motherhood is redefined in terms of a broader social scope that concerns Israel as a whole. By giving birth to Obed, she did in a sense give birth to Jesse in view of the establishment of the Davidic kingdom.
L Bronner has introduced a biblical concept which she coins the “Metaphorical Mother”. This term refers to a woman who metaphorically gives birth and nurtures a population of children who belong to her symbolically, though biological ties are not precluded. This mother socially contributes to the birth and growth of a flowering nation (Israel) and the progress of her people (Israelites). She essentially serves God’ plan as His administrator and acts as a protector of His chosen people. On momentous occasions in Israel’s history, she is called to give much needed wise counsel. Sarah, Miriam, Deborah, and Esther are models of this kind of mother.
These traditions find their culmination and fulfilment in Mary through the words of Jesus at a momentous point in salvation history. In ancient Hebrew and Greek literature, the written word reflects the importance of the spoken word and the effect it holds. J. Lauterbach informs us that in ancient time, unlike today, the spoken word was given a great deal of authority and credibility. Whatever was spoken by a person of great importance or in an extenuating circumstance, such as dying, should come true and actually happen. It would be reckless of someone to ignore or dismiss what was said. The spoken word must be treated as if it were a fact. In Hebrew, the term for word is dabar (דבר). It connotes a “thing” or “event”. J.L. Mackenzie tells us that there is a dynamic quality to the dabar, and that the reality and force of the word is rooted in the personality of the speaker. Thus, when we read the Gospel of John, Jesus’ words must be heard in light of who he is (the Messiah) and the event (the Crucifixion). They aren’t simply the words of any ordinary dying man.
The relationship Jesus forms between his mother and his disciple is connected with his messiahship and what he has accomplished for us on the Cross. His words point towards his resurrection and ascension into Heaven, and the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. The couplet “Woman, behold your son. Son, behold your mother” bears prophetic significance. Every prophetic utterance in the Bible has to do with the reality of our salvation, not practical concerns. The ancient beliefs surrounding the spoken word and the cultural setting give this couplet a special power. The words of Jesus are recorded because of their eschatological significance. John has something far more important in mind than the fact that Jesus was a faithful and loving son to his mother. We can assume this without having to be told, not that it has any direct or indirect bearing on our salvation.
In any event, the metaphorical mothers of the OT find their culmination and fulfilment in Mary through the words of Jesus and beyond the crucifixion scene. By speaking his words, our Lord is in fact conferring a special maternal role that transcends physical ties of kinship. They are uttered at the time of his crucifixion, which is only the beginning of what shall come by his death on the Cross, that is his bodily resurrection and glorification in Heaven. Mary’s motherhood is redefined as a thing that transcends physical temporal reality. It moves beyond earthly time as something spiritual. Her becoming the mother of the disciple is a saving action of God reminiscent of His intervention through the mothers of the OT. It marks a new era of faith and a new Covenant with God in a way similar to how God renewed his covenant with His people through the matriarchs of ancient Israel.
Mary is the bridge between the Old and the New Covenants. Sarah gave birth to Isaac. But her motherhood is redefined by the birth of Isaac’s son Jacob (Israel). Mary gave birth to Jesus, but her motherhood is redefined by becoming the mother of the Disciple (the Church). The beloved disciple represents all those who keep the commandments and bear witness to Jesus (Rev. 12:17). Jacob represents all the true servants of Israel in the spirit.
In collaboration with her Son, as our spiritual mother, Mary is foundational to our new Covenant of faith and vital to its growth. It all began at the Annunciation and continues with her maternal prerogatives in the kingdom of Heaven. But Mary’s motherhood of all Christ’s disciples isn’t merely symbolic, though rooted in the maternal figures of the OT. Rather it is something real and personally intimate. Mary does not have a distant and impersonal relationship with a corporate entity. She relates to each individual disciple in a personal and intimate way just as she did with John. Personally Mary is a mother who watches over us and provides us with her patronage. She is someone who we can actually invoke for guidance and protection by our petitions and supplications. In Heaven, she personally attends to our spiritual needs, being solicitous towards each and every one of us. Mary is much more than a symbolic representation. She is actually a mother we can communicate with – not just a metaphor – and who is personal and loving.
To be continued. Bear with me.

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