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Do We Condemn Ourselves?

GraftMeIn

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We stand condemned if we compare ourselves to others, and think more highly of ourselves than them.

Let's take a look at the parable in Luke 18: 9-14
And he spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess. And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner. I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.

When we look at who Jesus was speaking to, we can see, that it was those who thought they were more righteous than others, It even says that they despised others. We have to be very careful not to despise others, or think that we are more righteous than they are.

Looking at what the Pharisee said we can see that he was quick to point out all the problems of others, and compared himself to them. Instead of examining his own heart to see if it needed cleansing, he just figured he was better than the rest because he didn't do the same things he saw them doing.

The Publican on the other hand, examined their own heart, they weren't concerned about what others were doing, but only with that which they had done, they knew they weren't perfect or righteous, they were ashamed, and sought mercy from the Lord.

If we spend too much time concentrating on the sins of others, and comparing ourselves with them. It can only serve to blind us of our own shortfalls.

I pray that we can all learn to examine our own hearts before the Lord, in much the same way the Publican did. For we are no more worthy of Gods Mercy than anyone else on the face of this earth.
 

Gerry

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If we spend too much time concentrating on the sins of others, and comparing ourselves with them. It can only serve to blind us of our own shortfalls.

Indeed this is sometimes a bitter lesson to learn. For it is truely our human nature judge where we are in relation to others. This is exactly what Peter did, and as a result began to sink.

We need to be like Peter today, and cry out, Lord save me! And then we need to fix our jaw and never again lose our focus.
 
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GraftMeIn

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That's so true Gerry, It is our human nature. We even learn it growing up, just from going to school and having the schoolwork we did graded, and compared to others. Competing with our siblings, contests etc..

I wonder if I can find a bumper sticker that says...
I'm no better than anyone else, I've just been forgiven.
 
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That has always been oneof my favorite passages of the Bible. It is the man who udnerstands his own depravity and his need for God's mercy that is justified, and not the one who appears to be "all that." I thank God that I've never been all that, but he loves me more because I feel my own imperfection. His grace is amazing!

Thanks. You've given me help on writing an important paper for my Bible college class.
 
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GraftMeIn

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I'm glad to hear that this can help you with your paper Lambslove.

This also makes me start thinking about how the Pharisee pointed out all the good works he had done, and the parable about the seperation of the goat and sheep.

I'm thankful the Lord has the power to open our eyes to such things, and helps keep us on the right path. To accept the Love, and Grace He has given us is a wonderful thing, It's important to keep in mind that even those who we see walking in darkness are offered that same Love, and Grace, they only need to learn how to accept it. I pray the Lord will help me show others how to do just that.
 
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