My cousin in law, suffers from drug addiction bad. Everyone says that we are really close...and most of the time he encourages his children to spend time with me....and we have a good time. The only problem is his attitude:
1) He is frequently incarcerated just went back.
2)He always wants money and me to bail him out (its to the point whereas he will refuse visiting with me or talking to me if I dont adhere to his commands)....Im like whatever....I dont listen to him.
At this point: I dunno know if he is being genuine...if I should continue to visit him and be supportive...or is this a relationship that I have to cut off for life?
I dont know if this is just his addiction talking? Or if he sees me merely as a $$$$$ machine which really upsets me and makes me feel unsafe ...I dunno....Can someone with a substance abuse history help me......please..thanks.
1) He is frequently incarcerated just went back.
2)He always wants money and me to bail him out (its to the point whereas he will refuse visiting with me or talking to me if I dont adhere to his commands)....Im like whatever....I dont listen to him.
At this point: I dunno know if he is being genuine...if I should continue to visit him and be supportive...or is this a relationship that I have to cut off for life?
I dont know if this is just his addiction talking? Or if he sees me merely as a $$$$$ machine which really upsets me and makes me feel unsafe ...I dunno....Can someone with a substance abuse history help me......please..thanks.