Do looks matter?

[Sunbeam]

Gentlemen, the really exceptionally beautiful women (external appearance) usually have been active in the sexual arena for years, due to the fact that they are constantly swarmed with attention, like a piece of meat in a shark frenzie. It is rare to find these type of women serving God, since they get SO MUCH attention from the opposite sex and can have SO MUCH money and success by simply compromising their values.

I'm extremely attractive and I don't have a colorful sexual past. Think again.

 

[Sunbeam]

So, if you demand perfection in beauty, unless they are from another planet, the exceptionally good looking he or she you are desiring will most likely have a colorful sexual history. And, they will probably continue on with a colorful future, inspite of whatever religion they claim to possess.

I'd like to tell you off in person

 

[ummidrinkcherrycoke]

I'm extremely attractive and I don't have a colorful sexual past. Think again.

Ditto....... Oh wait. I'm a dude so the "extremely attractive must be
over-sexed" rule doesnt apply to me. No need for a comment then.

 

[cutekid 4 Jesus]

Actually I have been grabbed and groped but it was to make fun of me. And i'm not even just pretty. I know it's not the most important thing in life, but it still hurts pretty badly.

Oh,that is such a shame,was it in high school,?people can be so cruel there,girls and guys alike. God made each one of us beautiful,and there is going to be that special someone out there that thinks that you are absolutely GORGEOUS. I know its easier said than done but dont feel bad about society telling you that you are not pretty.

 

[cutekid 4 Jesus]

I'm extremely attractive and I don't have a colorful sexual past. Think again.

whoa!somebody is...sure of themselves

 

[Sunbeam]

whoa!somebody is...sure of themselves

People who work out hard often and have that glow to them can cross that line from being average to way above-average. But how many extremely attractive people have you met that didn't have a glow to them? They all do. If they didn't have that glow, would they look attractive still, very few of them. The burned-out sixties look is not in anymore except in cases of the young people who like black and some form of alternative music. What christian wants to look like that anyway.

Men that are average or below average looking in their opinion ought to work out hard because the muscle and cardio does something to make them look attractive, and it makes their skin and eyes and cheekbones look great and adds to a easy smile. Their face which may not look real symmetrical and they may be critical about can take on a look of highly attractive character instead in a way that women can't as easily pass off. But women have light makeup to use instead that does wonders in alot of cases. The look of character to men makes them look better than men that others always considered attractive because of just general symmetry. It takes some research to find out how to work out real hard without injuring yourself, or getting bored, but its worth it in my opinion. Men get that glow quicker than women do often when working out because their hormones are different and stronger. It's only when alot of muscle is developed on a man sometimes that that glow will appear on them. So no one should ever give up even about the surface issue of physical appearance.

In general though, its the personality and views of the other person that does take on a secondary chemistry beyond the first impression of looks. If a person is negative all the time on things that they should be positive about, you are definitely going to feel differently about them. That's why it is so important to try to develop your spiritual views, and emotional nature before marriage. You want to recognize someone who is going to be the same person for the long term. Doesn't it say in Proverbs that "looks is fleeting, and charm is deceptive but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised". I think of a woman who is agreeable to her husband, and disciplined appropiately. I think that verse can be applied to a man too.