Do I Say Something?

[ilovejesus86]

Ok, First let me tell you that my girlfriend is an AWESOME SINGER, she in varsity Chior and the madrigal program at her school, she also does a lot of solos. The thing is, this weekend she goes with her madrigals class (about 50 students) down to the U of I (illinois) to meet up with a bunch of other schools where they will all sing, and learn songs and etc. they leave right after school tomorrow and return late saturday night. So they will be staying there for the evening. Here is my dilemma; call it a vibe or revelation but im having some kind of sensation that something horrible is going to happen, not to get colorful but like somebody forcing themselves on her. I dont know where it came from, call it personal worrying, or maybe a message. Do i say something to her before she leaves? I dont want her to think im too possesive or an oddball.... I just dont want anything wrong to happen. Any ideas?

Mike

 

[DaveKerwin]

maybe just ask her to be cautious of her surroundings because sometimes college campuses can be tricky. Leave it at that and pray for her safety.

 

[ceres]

Just pray

 

[msjones21]

I agree with Ceres. All you can do is pray. While you are genuinely concerned for her safety it may not be prudent to tell her "listen, I've had a premonition that you're going to be raped". Just tell her to be careful and then pray for her safety.

 

[Riddick]

i doubt she'll ever be alone on the trip, so she should have safety in numbers going for her

 

[SirKenin]

Prayer and more prayer. Don't say anything, or it could lead to giving her the wrong message. Not just that, but nothing good would be accomplished by saying something.

 

[Lizzi4Christ]

I would tell to just to be careful (I'm told this everytime I leave the house). And pray, pray, pray, pray, pray. And when it gets hard to pray, pray some more!

 

[LadyBird]

Pray for her and just tell her to be careful (which I am sure she will be). Since she is going away with 50 other people, she probably won't be alone that often. And most campus' are safe, however, I would never walk alone on campus. Maybe just tell her that you are worried and she should have a buddy with her so that she is never alone. Most of the school trips I have gone on, it a requirement that you always have someone else with you.

 

[selune]

Pray and advise her to always be with at least one other person. Chances are nothing will happen, but that's why they're called chances and not certainties.

 

[invisiblebabe]

i'd tell her. not in a way that would freak her out... but just say that you're scared someone will take advantage of her (and i have heard stories about college visits gone wrong, so you aren't doing a bad thing by being concerned). advise her to always use the "buddy system" and just be careful... and i echo what the others said... pray pray pray!