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Hello!
I was hoping that I could get some clarification about what I’m experiencing. I have not been able to see a professional about this yet but I hope to do so soon. My main question is - Do I Have OCD? I am going to give you a few examples (there are more) of some experiences I’ve had in the past and then I will get to what I am currently experiencing.
It is quite a lot to read. Thanks for the help in advance!
Example 1: When I was 15 I went through a stage where I was so disturbed because I thought “What if I’m gay?” - although I knew I wasn’t. This lasted for months and involved many tears and prayers. It affected my life at the time. I felt sick and I wouldn’t want to do anything or be around anyone. My mom would be like, “Just stop thinking about it” and I would say “I want to but I can’t!”... eventually that stopped after I realized that I’m definitely not gay.
Example 2: There was a stage when I would have to consciously think about breathing and swallowing. To the point where I couldn’t focus on anything else. I would end up feeling light headed and, sometimes, choking on my food. I also managed to get myself out of that. Glory to God for that!
Example 3: At the beginning of this year (22 years old). Started coming back to God after a few years of trying to do life on my own (FAIL). I was reading my bible and I came across the unforgivable sin verse. I read it and I was so scared that I had committed it. I thought it was when you use the Holy Spirit’s name in vein - immediately I started having to resist the urge to have the thought. Like I didn’t want to use the name in vein but my mind just wanted to! Eventually I had the thought in the back of my mind and my heart just dropped! I called my sister and she said that I shouldn’t worry because God knows our hearts and He will forgive me. (I also realized that isn’t actually what the unforgivable sin is) Although I was down for a few weeks I eventually brushed it off.- I have had the same thought a couple times since then but I’ve slowly been able to ignore it.
More recently when I really started pressing in to the word and my faith was at its strongest I suddenly started to struggle with so many thoughts like: what if I’m not praying to God but to the enemy, am I saved, is God angry with me now because of all of these thoughts, what if I don’t believe the Bible (stopped reading), do I believe in God?
Although I have these thoughts, I know that they are not true but I still can’t convince myself. The more I try tell myself they’re not true the more I think about them. It has also had a negative affect on my prayer life and bible reading.
At first when I was having these thoughts I was in a panic, I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t work and I just felt empty. I went to my sister in tears multiple times for reassurance and prayer. I also asked a church elder to pray for me. Although I would feel hopeful after the prayers I would eventually get back into the loop of thoughts again.
During this time I’ve read a lot on these forums about people going through similar things. So I eventually calmed down and started to see the thoughts as OCD which has been a relief and I can actually function again.
I am still having some thoughts that I still can’t seem to shake off but I do have hope and although I sometimes don’t feel His presence I remain faithful that God is going to get me through this.
What do you think. Do I have OCD?
Thank you all so much!
P.S: The thought I’m currently struggling with is, what if I’m not praying to God but to the enemy. I have had this thought before - got over it - and then another thought hit me. So it’s weird that I’m thinking it again. It really sucks because it stops me from praying. Any advice on how to reject this and other thoughts would also be appreciated!
I was hoping that I could get some clarification about what I’m experiencing. I have not been able to see a professional about this yet but I hope to do so soon. My main question is - Do I Have OCD? I am going to give you a few examples (there are more) of some experiences I’ve had in the past and then I will get to what I am currently experiencing.
It is quite a lot to read. Thanks for the help in advance!
Example 1: When I was 15 I went through a stage where I was so disturbed because I thought “What if I’m gay?” - although I knew I wasn’t. This lasted for months and involved many tears and prayers. It affected my life at the time. I felt sick and I wouldn’t want to do anything or be around anyone. My mom would be like, “Just stop thinking about it” and I would say “I want to but I can’t!”... eventually that stopped after I realized that I’m definitely not gay.
Example 2: There was a stage when I would have to consciously think about breathing and swallowing. To the point where I couldn’t focus on anything else. I would end up feeling light headed and, sometimes, choking on my food. I also managed to get myself out of that. Glory to God for that!
Example 3: At the beginning of this year (22 years old). Started coming back to God after a few years of trying to do life on my own (FAIL). I was reading my bible and I came across the unforgivable sin verse. I read it and I was so scared that I had committed it. I thought it was when you use the Holy Spirit’s name in vein - immediately I started having to resist the urge to have the thought. Like I didn’t want to use the name in vein but my mind just wanted to! Eventually I had the thought in the back of my mind and my heart just dropped! I called my sister and she said that I shouldn’t worry because God knows our hearts and He will forgive me. (I also realized that isn’t actually what the unforgivable sin is) Although I was down for a few weeks I eventually brushed it off.- I have had the same thought a couple times since then but I’ve slowly been able to ignore it.
More recently when I really started pressing in to the word and my faith was at its strongest I suddenly started to struggle with so many thoughts like: what if I’m not praying to God but to the enemy, am I saved, is God angry with me now because of all of these thoughts, what if I don’t believe the Bible (stopped reading), do I believe in God?
Although I have these thoughts, I know that they are not true but I still can’t convince myself. The more I try tell myself they’re not true the more I think about them. It has also had a negative affect on my prayer life and bible reading.
At first when I was having these thoughts I was in a panic, I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t work and I just felt empty. I went to my sister in tears multiple times for reassurance and prayer. I also asked a church elder to pray for me. Although I would feel hopeful after the prayers I would eventually get back into the loop of thoughts again.
During this time I’ve read a lot on these forums about people going through similar things. So I eventually calmed down and started to see the thoughts as OCD which has been a relief and I can actually function again.
I am still having some thoughts that I still can’t seem to shake off but I do have hope and although I sometimes don’t feel His presence I remain faithful that God is going to get me through this.
What do you think. Do I have OCD?
Thank you all so much!
P.S: The thought I’m currently struggling with is, what if I’m not praying to God but to the enemy. I have had this thought before - got over it - and then another thought hit me. So it’s weird that I’m thinking it again. It really sucks because it stops me from praying. Any advice on how to reject this and other thoughts would also be appreciated!