There are things that are said commonly that have no basis in scripture. This is why it is important for you to learn these things from the Bible, and not only from what you heard.
Acts 17
11 These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.
I have discussed these things with people who mistake common cliche' statements for scripture. These statements were published regularly about 250 years ago in a periodical called "Poor Richard's Almanac," edited by Ben Franklin. So the following are not part of Bible scripture:
- God helps those who help themselves.
- Cleanliness is next to Godliness.
- God works in mysterious ways, His wonders to perform.
- Penny wise, and pound foolish.
Regardless of whether there is any amount of truth in these or not, they are not scripture, and are not from the Bible.
There are not any places in scripture that require or even suggest that we can "Accept Christ as our Savior." We can receive the gift of God, the gift of salvation, but this idea of accepting Christ is not scriptural.
We are told this is meant to be the same as receiving Christ according to the scriptures, but as we hear what people say, we find they think they can listen to a sermon, or read a pamphlet, and ACCEPT CHRIST as their Savior. They will decide to be right with God, and go to Heaven to be in His abode. Cain DECIDED that what he offered before God was sufficient. He was not accepted, and this brought out his true self. He murdered his brother, Abel, who had pleased God.
The scriptural terminology is to BELIEVE and be BAPTIZED. More specifically, Philip found that he should qualify that with, "...
If thou believest with all thine heart, thou mayest... " (Acts 8:37) Having gotten Simon the Sorcerer to say he believed, but finding his heart was not right with God, Philip was more specific with the "...
man of Ethiopia, an eunuch of great authority under Candace queen of the Ethiopians..." "
And he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God."
Acts 2
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
So the answer is you must be baptized, and you may be baptized if you believe with all your heart. To do this requires repentance from dead works. (Heb.6:1-2) Repentance requires a good confession of how we really are sinful. More on that in a minute.
There are things that people can do all day long that mean very little, but, in the right circumstance, when done according to God's command, have a spiritual benefit. A person can eat unleavened bread and follow that with unleavened "wine" after every meal. It is only when this is done by Christians who are remembering how Jesus Christ did this before His crucifixion (in a solemn setting,) that it is counted by God as honoring Jesus' sacrifice for our sins.
In the scriptures, there are a number of places that say we must believe and be Baptized. The act of being under water is not what will cleanse the soul. That may get the dirt off the outside, but God must wash the sins away.
I Peter 3
21 ¶ The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of Jesus Christ:
I John 1
9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
James 5
16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
So we see the answer of a good conscience toward God is that we confess our sins one to another. This is taken by one particular religion to mean something else, but it is required. Specifically, we are to find someone we can trust, and confess those things we have done. Typically, if the sins were done publicly, this should be a public confession. If the sins were private sins, they should be confessed privately..
Any who would refuse to be baptized may find that God does not accept them.
Matthew 10
32 Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.
33 But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.
Acts 2
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Acts 22
16 And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord.
If anyone thinks he can be saved, and NOT have his sins washed away in the obedient act of baptism, he will likely be surprised to find that the LORD would, also, deny him before the Father in Heaven.
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