I'm writing this for no other reason than to vent. During the summer months I get primary custody of our boys (age 10 and 12). My ex has it during the school year. So as you can imagine I very much look forward to the summer since I get to see my kids more often but I don't like my time with them interrupted if it can be helped. Needless to say my ex's family is having a family reunion on Sunday (my weekend) and she would like the boys to attend with her. I totally get that and have no issues with them going. But one day is now turning into two days and I now feel like my time with them is begin taken away and that I'm being a bit of a "pushover". I've always told myself that it is important that my kids get to do the things they would have normally done had their parents not divorced. This is an example of that. I realize that this is probably the right thing to do and that I need to put aside my disappointed feelings and move on. But it's hard. It's hard for several reasons. My kids are getting older and each day I don't see them really hurts. So every opportunity I have with them I look forward too and cherish. The summer is short so my "extra" time with them is short-lived. I also know that if the situation was reversed I wouldn't get the same courtesy back. I'm trying not to be bitter and I'm trying hard to be a role model for my kids, but I tell ya. It's really hard sometimes.