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Divorce final, but still finding out news

Bigun

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After the divorce, my ex-wife informs me she is pregnant with another man's baby, but swears it was just one time with that one guy.

Now I am finding out from various sources that it was not just that one guy, and that she has slept with several people.

I have three prayer requests, first one being that I need a clean bill of health, I do not want an STD.

Second, I am far, far, *FAR* away from God... this situation and the way my ex is claiming that she is now a Godly Christian is *REALLY* making me angry and resent Christianity to an extent. I need a softened, yet cautious, heart.

Thirdly, I have no idea what to to get myself to forget the last 7 years with her, and what to do about all this anger. All I feel is a need for revenge, and I know it is not healthy, but those feelings are there and growing. Help...
 

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Father God, I lift my brother up to You. LORD, please help him to know, that when You were on the cross, You were thinking of him, You knew what would unfold in his life and that You would be standing with arms wide open, ready to heal and love him. Any of us who have been in similar situations can attest to Your power of forgiveness, restoration and provision, I pray that You fill my brother with faith and make his heart tender again. I ask that You minister to him Father, give him Your comfort, Your peace. In those moments when things seem unbearable, that Your Spirit rush to him, to give him strength and encourage his heart. I pray LORD, that You keep him healthy and strong, and give him a deep hunger for Your Word and Your people. I pray You not let him isolate himself, but rather take strength and support from his church body. I ask that You show him desires for revenge are not of You, but of the enemy who will use them against him. I pray that You will dissolve those feelings and help him totally recover. I pray my brother will fall into Your waiting arms like a child and find relief. Thank You Father for Your miraculous healing of wounds that seem impossible to heal, only in You, in Jesus' name, amen.
in Him, Leslie
 
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Almighty Father, hear the cries of our brother this day. Surround him in Your Loving Embrace, keeping bitterness and anger far from his heart. Lord God, bless this young man, with health, let the sins of his wife, not be upon him, let no disease, let no std stand against him O Lord. Father, the child You love is broken by this deciet, take from him this pain, that weighs upon him. Free him from this oppression, break the chains of hatred and of unforgiveness Lord.
In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I Pray, Amen
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Imrana

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After the divorce, my ex-wife informs me she is pregnant with another man's baby, but swears it was just one time with that one guy.

Now I am finding out from various sources that it was not just that one guy, and that she has slept with several people.

I have three prayer requests, first one being that I need a clean bill of health, I do not want an STD.

Second, I am far, far, *FAR* away from God... this situation and the way my ex is claiming that she is now a Godly Christian is *REALLY* making me angry and resent Christianity to an extent. I need a softened, yet cautious, heart.

Thirdly, I have no idea what to to get myself to forget the last 7 years with her, and what to do about all this anger. All I feel is a need for revenge, and I know it is not healthy, but those feelings are there and growing. Help...
Oh Boy...I know how hard this all is. Time is a great healer and you must continue to pray. God will take care of you and your needs. Sometimes we wonder why he puts us in this situation but have you ever known a diamond that didn't withstand severe pressure to get to where it was? It was a mere carbon rock that withstood some phenomenal pressure to become the shining rock that it is. Hence so are we - God needs you to submit to him so he can guide you. Stay strong - he will find a way for you. If you need me to pray or if you need to just chat - I am here. Drop me a line sometime. I am praying for you. God Bless you.
 
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Heavenly Father, bless our brother and all the situations he's dealing with. Let him be healed of any sickness that he may have and to be fully restored to good health. Let him have a soft heart and not resent Christianity or his ex-wife from this situation. Let him see that love is the only way to react to people and to always keep it with him. In Jesus' holy name I pray. Amen.
 
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