Mling
Knight of the Woeful Countenance (in training)
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I went to public school back in the 50s, when everything was supposedly so wonderful. I don't remember any kind of "values" lessons. I don't see how this can even be a pedagogical issue.
People develop a value system from their upbringing, from examples they observe, and from their life experiences. Classroom didactics have little or nothing to do with it.
True that values are more "absorbed" than "learned," but children spend an enormous amount of time in school, and the time spent there, apart from its quantity, is highly important (it is the place in which children are in the mindset of "need to absorb, need to learn" even if they hate being in that mindset, and even if it is just to pass the next test, they are still in it). "Upbringing" does not just happen at home--it includes the atmosphere of anyplace children spend a good deal of time--school being one of the most important places.
Lecturing on values may not have much impact, but simply including moral lessons in everday experience could.
For example, I read an online cartoon, drawn by somebody who often works lessons he's learned in his own life into the character's lives. One running theme, that he has said is absolutely from his own experience, is bullying in schools--the little geek goes to school being geeky. He get's shoved in a trashcan by a jock. When he talks to the principal, he is told that he is getting beaten up because he refuses to conform, and if he would stop provoking the bully by being a geek, the beatings would end. That is a whole slew of moral lessons, for both the victim and the bully--conformity is superior to individuality. Violence is acceptable if used to promote conformity. "Healthy, red-blooded Americans" act in a certain way (the jocks) and to act otherwise is inherently pathological. Those in authority will/(should) help promote these ideals by allowing the violent abuse of those who refuse to conform to them. This is likely because these people gained authority by conforming to these ideals themselves. Therefore, in order to gain authority or power, in order to "make it," one must conform to these ideals, and, once one has, they may enforce them, violently if need be.
The daughter of one of my mom's coworkers has had a lot of problems like this. She has a mild physical disability--she has poor balance and has a lot of trouble walking backwards. She was regularly harrassed by members of her class, and if, in order to escape from them, she as much as layed a hand on them in order to move past, she got in trouble. Her harrassers did not. They would sometimes surround her, sometimes at the top of stairs with her back to the stairs, and she was not allowed to defend herself. During a meeting, a harrasser's mother defended her child, saying "She needs to learn to get used to it, since she's going to have to put up with it for the rest of her life." The school staff did not (I believe) concur outright, but they did not protect the girl, or suggest that this mother was wrong.
This is a moral lesson.
Moral lessons will always be taught in schools, but schools should make more of an effort to decide to teach certain morals, and then teach them deliberately, rather than simply doing what seems instinctive, and not considering the message. So, when I said that schools should teach general kindness, justice, general curtesy and all the rest, this is what I meant. That schools should decide to teach these principles and then make a deliberate effort to demonstrate them. Perhaps work them into lessons in regular classes.
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