Very defensive of you to say this to Wayseer and to others.
I disagree a lot with Wayseer, but if you
really had a gift of discernment, you'd see he was in no way being rude or insulting towards you. His concern is genuine, his argument perfectly sound (and Scripturally-based), and his temperment, based on his wording, is mild.
I do have a gift of discernment. You, based on this response alone, do not. Your defensiveness is proof that you don't have such a charismata.
I would encourage you to discover the gifts that you
do possess and enrich the Kingdom with them. Everyone has their place and no one is greater or lesser than another. You have a place and it is vital and important; I'm certain you probably truly know deep inside where it is, and I encourage you to embrace it!
This isn't judgmentalism; this is observation. Please learn the difference.