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Starcrystal said:Not only have I read the gospels numerous times in the past 20 years, I have studied some of the background history, the Greek, and all 4 (or possibly 5) different teachings on divorce and remarraige. Jesus taught that the ideal marraige union is forever, but if it is broken by infedelity (a cheating spouse) then a divorce is permitted. Preachers tend to go to Mark 10 where the part about divorce allowed for unfaithfulness is not included... but you will find it in Matthew. You do know mark is sort of a condensed version of Matthew, being directed at Gentiles, while matthew was directed towards the Jews??
In Christs day there were no "lay people" ~ and I will agree that there are thousands of Protestant denominations that all cannot agree on things and are filled with division. But I will not endorse any organized Church, be it Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox, or other, as having the cornerstone of truth when it comes to things of God.
In fact about 10 years ago I had a Catholic friend who was also Native and wanted to know what her church thought about dream catchers and other native items. I called 3 different Catholic churches. The first said it was an unimportant issue. The second said anything superstitious was condemned by the Church. The third said their Priest had a big dream catcher hanging on his office door. All the same Church, yet 3 differing opinions amongst the Priests.
Back to the Bible and lay people: 1 John tells us we have no need for any man to teach us, because the Holy Spirit teaches us all things. I know some try to say the Holy Spirit teaches through men, or a preacher, or priest, or Pope. Nope ~ not according to Jesus own words found in 3 chapters, John 14 - 16. The Spirit APART from man will teach, guide & show things to come.
Man is fallible, I don't care who he is or what he claims. To submit ones self to a man or group of men because some organized church tradition says so is no different than what was happening with the Pharisees in Jesus day.
I pray to the one Holy Lord God that the Holy Spirit shine through the blindness and darkness that enshrouds organized religion, its self imposed limitations, its quenching of the Spirit, and it's misguiding of people. In the name of Jesus Christ, who alone can enlighten by the Spirit.
billwald said:Paul taught a different theology than the Jerusalem Church. Recall that the Gospels were written after Paul's letters. If Paul was correct, then why do the Gospels have Jesus saying that he did not come to end the Law?
Causes her to commit "adultery".Petr said:Really?
Matthew wouldn't agree with you:
Whoever puts away his wife, apart from a matter of fornication, causes her to commit adultery.
And I never said it did.Luke and Matthew wouldn't agree with you that marriage exists in the resurrection and after resurrection.
Crispie said:What I find funny is, if thi sis true, that only the Holy Spirit is to teach you, not the Holy Spirit teaching people through other men, then everything Paul teaches is null and doesnt count.
ravenwolf said:So, if Jesus' said he did not come to end the law....and then he says he came to fulfill the law, meaning finish it, then isnt that a contradiction???
ravenwolf said:maybe you should all quit being so judgmental. I think perhaps that is the biggest turn off of Christianity....the judgmentalism and self-righteousness.....becuase u would have to be self righteous to think you can judge somebody else.
that is a judgement.peaceful soul said:Starcrystal is pouring more gasoline onto an already destructive fire and he/she is in the midst of that fire.
ravenwolf said:that is a judgement.
Ravenwolf,
maybe you should all quit being so judgmental. I think perhaps that is the biggest turn off of Christianity....the judgmentalism and self-righteousness.....becuase u would have to be self righteous to think you can judge somebody else.
ravenwolf said:I did not say making a judgment...i said judging SOMEONE...there is a difference. Yes we all have to make judgemnts. But I dont think it is right to judge someone else and say they are in the midst of fire liek u said, or things such as they are not of God, or so and so is going to hell, or ur religion is not the correct one. I see those judgments OF PEOPLE here all too often. So it is not the fact that one is judging, but what it is they are judging that bothers me.
Blessings
~ravenwolf
ravenwolf said:Also, this is my take on the whole judgment thing. You can judge obvoise things, such as this action is right and this action is wrong, or you can make judgemtns about the Bible that you erad, because all of these things are observable. But u can not observe soemones inner soul. Threfore you cannot make a judgment of where they stand. You made a judgemtn of Starcrystal and it implied that he was not in a good place(menaing his heart...or inner soul) yet you cannot even observe this. There are things we can judge, yes, those things which we can observe, but niether u or i can observe anothers heart and sou and where they stand with themselvs, God and the Universe.
Blessings
~ravenwolf