There a guy that I know a long time ago and a couple of years ago we ending up at the same church. Around March during rehearsal for a Easter Play, which he was in, I starting to notice him but a keep me cool. We start talking and act like we did back thing, we seem to connect. We been talking on the phone for about three weeks but we never talking about us and how we feel about each other. So, I finally made the move and told him that I like him, and that we need to talk about where do we go from here. I hope that I did the right then because this is the first time I every done any thing like this before, but I felt that someone had to make the first step. I have very strong feeling towards him and I need to know. Did I do the right, or should I have waiting and let faith take it course.
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Did I Do The Right Thing?
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One wa or another it had to be done.. some guys like upfront girls who make it known whats "going on"... some guys dont... some guys want and somewhat thrive off the "chase"... to each their own... as far as I am concerned.. YOU GO GIRL.
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Me personally, I guess after being in such a serious relationship for so long, I now just take things as they come. Its nice not having to worry all the time about where I stand with someone (one in particular 
though I know he thinks highly of me... I think ). When it comes to things that have to do with moving into the "relationship" realm, I'm ok with not analyzing things... besides, surprises are nice. This one guy used to think that I didn't care about "being with him" because I didn't worry about where I stood with him, but the truth is is that if he cared enough about me like he said he did, I was confident in the fact that he'd be up front with me about what he thought of me. At this point, I've met an awesome guy (one in particular) and I let it be what it is... something without strings attached, friendship. Its a lot less stressful cause we don't have to figure out what's going on with each other. We know where we stand in one another's life (lives?) and it works well with me and I'm pretty sure with him also. He's busy with certain things right now and I have my stuff to take care of too but though its not said, it is known that we care about one another no matter how busy life gets. If and when the moment ever presents itself for me and him, we'll be golden, but for the time being, like I said, its nice not having to analyze exactly what is going on. A repeat: Stay friends and let things flow... no rush, no mess ups. Another thing, some guys scare easy no joke. Feel him out and be honest with him but don't press him. There's a fine line between wanting to know how he feels and being clingy. Be your own person and let things flow You'll be golden. Best wishes to you.
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though I know he thinks highly of me... I think ). When it comes to things that have to do with moving into the "relationship" realm, I'm ok with not analyzing things... besides, surprises are nice. This one guy used to think that I didn't care about "being with him" because I didn't worry about where I stood with him, but the truth is is that if he cared enough about me like he said he did, I was confident in the fact that he'd be up front with me about what he thought of me. At this point, I've met an awesome guy (one in particular) and I let it be what it is... something without strings attached, friendship. Its a lot less stressful cause we don't have to figure out what's going on with each other. We know where we stand in one another's life (lives?) and it works well with me and I'm pretty sure with him also. He's busy with certain things right now and I have my stuff to take care of too but though its not said, it is known that we care about one another no matter how busy life gets. If and when the moment ever presents itself for me and him, we'll be golden, but for the time being, like I said, its nice not having to analyze exactly what is going on. A repeat: Stay friends and let things flow... no rush, no mess ups. Another thing, some guys scare easy no joke. Feel him out and be honest with him but don't press him. There's a fine line between wanting to know how he feels and being clingy. Be your own person and let things flow You'll be golden. Best wishes to you.~Katty
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If you feel something for a guy and you think it's serious enough to tell him, then tell him. Two girls have declared themselves to me which I didn't feel the same back. Ive declared myself to a girl (Twice in 2 years!) and she didn't feel the same back. And I've also, very dorkily, declared myself to a girl who dorkily declared herself back.
Either way, if you get good news or bad news... it's better. You get it off your system and you don't have to keep 2nd guessing the other person and what he/she feels.
The worst that can happen is that the person doesn't feel the same back. The best that can happen is that you both like each other and you were just the first to act.
Either way, if you get good news or bad news... it's better. You get it off your system and you don't have to keep 2nd guessing the other person and what he/she feels.
The worst that can happen is that the person doesn't feel the same back. The best that can happen is that you both like each other and you were just the first to act.
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