Ofcoure, suicide is sad for all envolved with it.

The Lord is the only one that knows how to have perfect mercy and judgment towards the vessels of life He has created. We, as creatures, can only speculate, at best, how much God gave this vessel and what its purpose was in life. He then knowing what was given, knows to what degree one bears responsibility and then knows how to judge. We have not given life to Judas or any creature and therefore cannot judge. We can, however, love, as is our command and give the benefit of the doubt to all and hope the best for them without any malice in our own hearts.