I'm all for career over a significant other. Don't mold yourself to become some "ideal" like a bad a** or macho man. You're right, that would be a waste of time.
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You need to take steps to make yourself bad a**, women dont want to be with someone that is wimpy and may not be able to care for her. Start lifting weights, join martial arts, get a degree or training in something manly (auto mechanic for automatic transmissions, diesel mechanic, engineer, doctor, welder, etc). And start pursuing a woman, craigslist works well but you do have to sort through a significant number of b*t*hs.
What is it with the terrible advice?
I mean honestly do you actually hold these macho ideals in real life? because the way you present them here, I almost feel sorry for your wife.
What is it with the terrible advice?
I mean honestly do you actually hold these macho ideals in real life? because the way you present them here, I almost feel sorry for your wife.
Much easier said than done. I didn't want to stoop to this level, but I may have to rid my own best friend, and probably unfriend his girl on facebook. I know that doesn't sound like much, but it'd probably be real personal to her. I don't want to see her face again, I don't want to hear her name, I want my world and hers to never EVER intersect again. I say that with 100% pure grave seriousness.Please, try not to think of them.
I don't think you quite get it. Me and this guy have been friends for a LONG time. He's been like my business partner. We've made many web series together, we've made websites together. In fact, I'm the reason he's with this girl. If I didn't exist, neither would that relationship.Yeah, you maybe should let the friend go. I assume he knows how you feel, in which case he's a worthless friend anyway. I think it would help you move on.
I don't think you quite get it. Me and this guy have been friends for a LONG time. He's been like my business partner. We've made many web series together, we've made websites together. In fact, I'm the reason he's with this girl. If I didn't exist, neither would that relationship.
Every once in a while, he texts me and invites to his events. What kind of person would I be if I said, "Listen, we've been through everything together, but you're dating the girl I liked, we can't be friends anymore. Later."
It's just... I've tried so many times to get a girl and not only did I fail each time, a pack of embarrassment and insult comes with it. Yet my friend. He calls the girl "hot" and bam, he gets her, even though she had another boyfriend at the time. I just don't get it man.
My dad told me that me still being friends with him after that was a sign of my "high maturity". Nothing sense anymore. I still see life as a waste of time. I didn't fail life. Life failed me.
She and I were supposed to go out for a "girl's day out" one time and she ended up bringing along this hot guy that watched her try on homecoming dresses at the mall. He admired her and offered to pay for a $300.00 dress. Lots of flirting and giggling. I was in the backseat of the car on the way there and back, he drove, she was in the passenger's seat. I felt like a tag along little sister.
The way my face is shaped, I don't like. I personally think I put on a few pounds, but I can change that easily. Also, I always wanted a slim body, but instead I have a very wide frame with very wide shoulders.What do you think is physically unattractive about you?
I wear contacts and glasses interchangeably. I'm not worried about the two, because they don't change much. Glasses don't make me feel embarrassed, but I do wear contacts when I see fit.Is it something you can change? Contacts instead of glasses
My hair is an extremely dark brown, which I quite like, but my hair grows in the dumbest way possible. I want my hair to grow like this: http://coolmenshairstyles.com/images/2009/09/male-surfer-hairstyles.JPGchanging your hair color
I'd like to think that. But I've never been told I was attractive and I have a history of being called ugly. Unless I do full blown plastic surgery, I can't change too much.you probably are good looking but you can't see it through your self hating eyes. But if something is bothering you that you can fix, change it!
explodingboy (did your story really happen?)
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