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Care to share?Red there is such wisdom in your words that have been God given...it confirmed something I felt led to do today...thank you.
hugs sis
G

"Perhaps this is why all of my relationships after my divorce have failed."It is better not to vow than to make a vow and not fulfill it. Do not let your mouth lead you into
sin. And do not protest to the temple messenger, "My vow was a mistake." Why should God be
angry with what you say and destroy the work of your hands? Much dreaming and many words
are meaningless. Therefore stand in awe of God.
Ecclesiastes 5:5-7
Have you ever had someone make a commitment and then back out at the last minute? I think we've all experienced this. But, the Lord is true to his word and expects the same of his children. If you can't fulfill your vow you shouldn't make it to begin with. A perfect example of this...a few years ago when I got out of a relationship...I made a vow to the Lord that I would never have intimate relations again until I was remarried. If that didn't happen then I would remain abstinent. I have upheld this vow and I have every intention of seeing it through. Why? Because I made a
promise to God and I intend to keep it. If I were to back out now, it would be stupid for me to expect him to not be angry. I would rather die than make my Father angry because I couldn't keep my promise. It is one thing to break a promise to man but, it is far more serious to break one made to the Lord. God tells us he will destroy the work of our hands if we go back on our word. Pretty serious stuff. Are there unfulfilled vows in your life? Marriage, business, or friendships? Vows not fulfilled in any of these areas may be the reason our work is being hindered. Perhaps this is why all of my relationships after my divorce have failed. I asked forgiveness but, that doesn't necessarily free me from correction. We can try to make them right so that we may be successful later on in order to do whatever God calls us to do.