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Determining my conversation style

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Hi,

I've been trying to decipher my conversation style. I can say that I argue to learn but I often set up arguments in a really weird way by asking a person a question that I know the answer to. But these are not rhetorical questions, I am sincerely looking for a response.
 
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Hi,

I've been trying to decipher my conversation style. I can say that I argue to learn but I often set up arguments in a really weird way by asking a person a question that I know the answer to. But these are not rhetorical questions, I am sincerely looking for a response.

lol yeah I have wonder about this kind of thing. Like if you got some Asperger's or something.
 
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Your "conversation style" is totally up to you. Pick the one you want.
I refrain from arguing here and asking lead questions because I am among strangers. But among my friends, those who know me, with whom I can be totally open, I have found that constructive arguing and my odd investigative questioning style is the most beneficial learning -wise for me
 
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lol yeah I have wonder about this kind of thing. Like if you got some Asperger's or something.

Because you remind me of people I know that have things like that.
 
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It seems alright to me. You like to challenge what people believe; I have done it for years. Like me, you may find that many people do not know why they believe something, and many do not care that they do not know why they believe something.
 
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