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Shreck said:
Is life planned out for us and should go with the flow taking what comes and just live with it... or can we make our own destiny.

SherCk :confused:

You forgot the one true option. Life is not planned for you, but is a result of a set of cause/effect relationships that you have no control over. Every decision you make is based upon a set of beliefs developed because of the cause/effect relationships you've been a part of in the past. So you do have an unchangeable destiny, but there is no planning involved. However, you cannot know what that destiny is, and you feel like you have real control over it. So it doesn't matter all that much.
 
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Life is planned, and you do have a destiny, however, you still have controll. It is just simply made that the actions you plan to take by controll co-inside with destany.

sort of like if you place a hungry frog in a room full of flies, the frog will eat a fly. Sure the frog chooses to do so by free will, but we know ahead of time that he will do so.
 
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yasic said:
Life is planned, and you do have a destiny, however, you still have controll. It is just simply made that the actions you plan to take by controll co-inside with destany.

sort of like if you place a hungry frog in a room full of flies, the frog will eat a fly. Sure the frog chooses to do so by free will, but we know ahead of time that he will do so.


Thats instinct not destiny. While I do believe that we live our own lives as to how we see fit God can and introduce people to your life or makes little changes in your life to lead you down a certain path. You just have to be willing to take the road he sets out for you.


-cw
 
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