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I feel so bad. :-/

Im going through my stages of depression as well. It helps to have a go to verse to comfort you. You do have any book or scripture verses in the Bible that you often gravitate towards when you're down?
 
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HE "feels" so good about you. HE embraces your every moment. Look to Him, not to your "feelings."
I know we shouldnt look to our feelings but im human and its every part of me..the pain..the emotions ...the hurt...its the only thing i can feel inside of me..my feelings are apart of me. My soul..sometimes i just can not look at my feelings and ignore them because its what makes me feel alive..or am i wrong ...if i am please correct me :-/
 
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Im going through my stages of depression as well. It helps to have a go to verse to comfort you. You do have any book or scripture verses in the Bible that you often gravitate towards when you're down?
Not really....
 
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Not really....

Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
 
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Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
Thats true and i do love God but i didnt put him first and rebelled against him..now i have all these regrets and when i look back on my life my ways didnt show that..etc..now i am carrying this burden of guilt sorrow and shamefulness and pain..so its hard for me
 
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I know we shouldnt look to our feelings but im human and its every part of me..the pain..the emotions ...the hurt...its the only thing i can feel inside of me..my feelings are apart of me.sometimes i just can not look at my feelings and ignore them because its what makes me feel alive..or am i wrong :-/..
When you became a Christian you became occupied by the Holy Spirit of God. HE is the mediator, the arbitrator, the reconciliator. All of Him is available to you right now and forever. If, on the other hand, you spend your days and nights listening to your "feelings," you are blocking the input of the Holy Spirit.

For example, He says, "I love you." You reply, "I feel bad." He says, "I'm right there with you." You reply "I can't ignore my feelings." He says, "the very best is right here, right now. You are being asked to participate in the wonderful Good News of God's Amazing Grace,the life-changing love of God is right here, right now."

How do you respond? "Oh, yeah, I know, I've heard it all before, but I'm just human and I feel these things that are apart of me and......" and He interrupts to say: "JENNIFERDIANA!!!! IT'S ME!! I'm assigned to change your "feelings" into love for me, yourself, and others! No more sticking your head in the sand, no more loneliness doing nothing----I placed perfect living in your head the moment you became a Christian." He says, "I am perfect --- you are perfect! You just have to recognize that you are the Righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!" Romans 10:8-13. Believe it, Confess it, Receive it, and go on your way rejoicing.

I'm shutting down for tonight, but the Holy Spirit is right there with you 24/7/365. You can count on Him!
 
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When you became a Christian you became occupied by the Holy Spirit of God. HE is the mediator, the arbitrator, the reconciliator. All of Him is available to you right now and forever. If, on the other hand, you spend your days and nights listening to your "feelings," you are blocking the input of the Holy Spirit.

For example, He says, "I love you." You reply, "I feel bad." He says, "I'm right there with you." You reply "I can't ignore my feelings." He says, "the very best is right here, right now. You are being asked to participate in the wonderful Good News of God's Amazing Grace,the life-changing love of God is right here, right now."

How do you respond? "Oh, yeah, I know, I've heard it all before, but I'm just human and I feel these things that are apart of me and......" and He interrupts to say: "JENNIFERDIANA!!!! IT'S ME!! I'm assigned to change your "feelings" into love for me, yourself, and others! No more sticking your head in the sand, no more loneliness doing nothing----I placed perfect living in your head the moment you became a Christian.
Yeah..thanks..i needed to hear that.....thanks for that
 
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Thats true and i do love God but i didnt put him first and rebelled against him..now i have all these regrets and when i look back on my life my ways didnt show that..etc..now i am carrying this burden of guilt sorrow and shamefulness and pain..so its hard for me

I understand, I suffer from depression. I know well how it feels.

When Christ died for you He paid the price for your sins. Give your guilt and shame to Christ. Satan often brings up our sins from the past, he is terrorizing you. Just know that God forgives all of your sins so you. needn't let Satan haunt you about them.

You must also forgive yourself. If Almighty God forgives your sin, you should forgive yourself. Ask God to help you do this.

Jesus said

Matthew 12:31
And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven.
 
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When you became a Christian you became occupied by the Holy Spirit of God. HE is the mediator, the arbitrator, the reconciliator. All of Him is available to you right now and forever. If, on the other hand, you spend your days and nights listening to your "feelings," you are blocking the input of the Holy Spirit.

For example, He says, "I love you." You reply, "I feel bad." He says, "I'm right there with you." You reply "I can't ignore my feelings." He says, "the very best is right here, right now. You are being asked to participate in the wonderful Good News of God's Amazing Grace,the life-changing love of God is right here, right now."

How do you respond? "Oh, yeah, I know, I've heard it all before, but I'm just human and I feel these things that are apart of me and......" and He interrupts to say: "JENNIFERDIANA!!!! IT'S ME!! I'm assigned to change your "feelings" into love for me, yourself, and others! No more sticking your head in the sand, no more loneliness doing nothing----I placed perfect living in your head the moment you became a Christian." He says, "I am perfect --- you are perfect! You just have to recognize that you are the Righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!" Romans 10:8-13. Believe it, Confess it, Receive it, and go on your way rejoicing.

I'm shutting down for tonight, but the Holy Spirit is right there with you 24/7/365. You can count on Him!

Excellent post. :oldthumbsup:
 
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Im going through my stages of depression as well. It helps to have a go to verse to comfort you. You do have any book or scripture verses in the Bible that you often gravitate towards when you're down?
Just goes to show how the daily habit of Bible reading and prayer is so valuable, right?
 
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John 14.1-27 and Psalm 46 are great passages, among many others.

John's First Epistle, amongst other themes, is about assurance of faith in the Son of God.

Thanks, I was trying to remember Psalms 46.
 
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