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Nothing too major I guess, but I just discovered that we will not be able to buy a house this year....

I was really excited thinking that we would be able to afford it, but a look at the calculators and there is no way the bank would lend us the money. With me on a casual wage and then on maternity leave...It just made me real down....

oh well. I just wanted to vent. I was really hoping that we would be in our own place by the time the baby was born....I hate living here....the house belongs to MIL and there are a lot of underlying issues with that....(she doesn't live with us though).

Not sure what I can do about it though, other than get hubby to find another job that pays more, but I can't really ask him to do that, it isn't fair.
 
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angelsgirl

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oh... I'm sorry... It sucks when you can't do things when you thought you'd be able to!!!

Have you actually spoken to someone from a bank? Or just done the online calculators? I found there was a big difference in what they said.

Also have you thought about maybe not buying a 'house' and maybe buying a flat or duplex or something smaller to get you into the property market? Then later on, upsize? Just another thought...

Hugs for you... :hug:
 
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