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Desire is normal and natural. It's not sinful to feel desire. I don't think you need to avoid kissing just because you experience desire with it, as long as you and your boyfriend have healthy boundaries.
 
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Hello
I am a woman, in her first relationship, and I am stuck on the area of kissing. I am VERY touch sensitive, and anything after a few seconds of kissing or a few pecks gives me this whoosh, like I get turned on WAY too fast. Which leads me to believe that I shouldn't be kissing my boyfriend anymore. I understand that kissing isn't inherently wrong, and it doesn't happen with every single kiss, but it happens so fast for me.
I'm upset by this revelation though. I want to kiss my boyfriend, and I want him to kiss me, even just a quick peck. But it's so easy to go a little bit longer, and then whoosh, I'm turned on. He has said he could try to not kiss me, if that's what I end up deciding, but it's so hard to make that call! :(
Does anyone have any thoughts?
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