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Bruce S

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I have attended a few Messianic services, I am a Christian and plan on continuing my attendence.

Can I debate in this forum if I continue to be a regular Christian AND one that attends a Messianic congregation?

I read over the rules, and can't figure out if such a person is permitted to debate or just ask a question for response?
 

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Not fully understanding the deeper implications of Messianic Judaism, but wanting to deeply, I really don't know.

I can honestly say, without reservation, that I WANT to be much more attuned to Messiac worship, learn as much as possible, integrate it into my heart, mind, and soul.

But being FULLY one and walking away from a traditional denomination completely....errr...not right now, I would prefer to do both concurrently, at this given time in my life. However, that could change, who knows?
 
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Alot of people come in here under the guise of just wanting to learn.

Unfortunately what I see from the majority is they do not want to learn, rather they would point out scriptures that seemingly trample under foot the beliefs of Messianics.

When they are questioned or rebutted, they utterly ignore that which conflicts with their doctrine and take offense claiming oppression saying they only wanted to learn and our comments have proved to them that MJ is not for them.

But, thats just an observation of mine.
 
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The biggest concern is that we don't want anything to turn into an inter-denominational debate.

However, and this is just my opinion, it seems that you may be at a point where debating Messianic Judaism may not be in your best interest. I'd definitely recommend asking questions and joining in on discussions, though.

Heck, it seems like most of the reading, etc., that I've done over the last 6 months has been about nothing but MJ, and I still don't feel qualified to debate anything, and I'm a moderator here!
 
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OK, now I think I understand. I'm NOT qualified to "Debate" anything, not here certainly. But I guess I AM qualified to ask a LOT of stupid questions...grin.

Here is one.

When I went into the Synagogue I put on the head covering, Kippya [?] and grabbed a prayer shawl too. I was wondering why SOME had their heads covered and a shawl, and others didn't. Is there a proper protocol for these things?
 
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Bruce S said:
Here is one.

When I went into the Synagogue I put on the head covering, Kippya [?] and grabbed a prayer shawl too. I was wondering why SOME had their heads covered and a shawl, and others didn't. Is there a proper protocol for these things?
May I ask why you felt inclined to do so if you saw that not all were? Especially since you did not and still do not understand the meaning, tradition or Mitzvot behind the one?

I am not trying to be mean here Bruce but I would warn you to be aware of doing anything without understanding it first. For example if you were to go into a Catholic church and you saw those in front of you dipping their hands in the "Holy water" and crossing themselves, would you do the same before knowing the meaning behind it?

I make talliot and also tie tzitzit and will be happy to explain both to you as well as the mitzvot ( commandment) concerning them, I just would like to have you answer my above questions first.
 
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Here's what http://www.jewfaq.org had to say about the tallit (prayer shawl).

 
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Certainly a FAIR and BALANCED question to me.

I guess I would, in a Catholic Church, dip into the Holy Water, and cross myself, if I saw others doing so in front of me. I would do that, because I would assume that is the proper protocol, and respectful thing that SHOULD be done on entering a Catholic Church.

Now, later, if I was informed, by those kind enough to assist me, that this was NOT to be done, except by Catholics, immediately, I would refrain from such actions in the future.

I sort of think it is a "When in Rome.." sort of thing.

Understand, that there is NO disrespect at all in my trying to "fit in" just the opposite. Years ago, I attended a Jewish funeral, at the door, the attendents were handing out head coverings, to all without one. So, I assumed upon going to the Synagogue, that this was the proper and respectful thing to do, and seeing the people at the door greeting wearing head coverings, and the box with a pile of them there at the door, just did as I THOUGHT was the right thing.

I HAVE read in the Torah, the command to cover head in worship, remembering that, and [secretly, inside contrasting that to NOT wearing a head covering at my normal service ???] I covered mine out of respect for what I thought was expected.

Wrong? Could you help me out here with both of these, so that I might NOT make any mistakes, nor be disrepectful in the future, if this is inappropriate. I want to do this properly, with honor and respect to the traditions for visitors and seekers.
 
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Hey Bruce, I sure hope that you didn't take that the wrong way, it was not meant to be confrontational, I was justing wondering what your motivation was. Now donning a kippot ( or yalmulke - yiddish) to go to service, I believe was the correct thing to do as it shows your respect for where you were and with whom you were worshipping and that is admirable. There are many in my synagogue that dont' do that even after coming for months and I don't think that is right.

Now as far as the Tzitzi. These are the "fringes" on the edges of the Tallit, or prayer shawl. Now the commandments ( mitzvot) regarding this are for a few things, I will make it simple and break it down for those unfamiliar with this.

1. You are to tie the fringes ( tzitzit) to your garment yourself

2. There are to be four ( the four corners)

3. You are to look upon them and remember all the commandments of the L-RD and DO THEM, and keep you eyes upon them so that you dont' turn away from Him and go a whoring off to other "gods"

4. One of the strings must be blue( the blue reminds one of heaven where HaShem dwells)

5. They are to remind you of The L-rd,His word and His Torah ( all the commandments) and to do the commandments which He gave you and be holy unto G-d

6. They are to be tied to the edge of the garment in the hem on the four corners.

7. These "fringes" are to be tied to your outer garment.

Now much in the way of Tradition has brought about what we have today called the Prayer shawl. If one wants to really follow the commandment it can not be done with just wearing a prayer shawl in services. A prayer shawl is more like a "little tent" and the word conotes such. Many choose to wrap themselves inside it when praying.

I believe that one that wears talliot should also be following Torah as that is the main function of the tzitzi , to remind one of all the commandments and to do them. So I think for now you would be best off just wearing the kippot, and will do well.

 
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