This article would beg to differ:
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1) love
a) human love for human object
1) of man toward man
2) of man toward himself
3) between man and woman
4) sexual desire
2) God's love to His people
I.e., companionship, pride, romance, lust, and divine love. We are talking of love between two people, so it's neither pride nor divine love; romance and lust are distinct possibilities, especially in light of the whole of 1 Samuel.
Companionship, while possible, would not make sense in light of their actions and comments (Jonathan disrobing for David; referring to the nakedness of one's parents (a common Biblical euphamism for sex); 1S20:31 "Why, as long as the [David] lives upon the earth you cannot make good your claim to the kingship!" (i.e., Jonathan would not be able to produce an heir and ascend to the throne while he was still with David: he is in a homosexual relationship with him); etc).
That is, the actions and comments surrounding David and Jonathan belies a non-sexual / non-romantic friendship.
Thus, only a sexual and/or romantic relationship remains. Point made.
Perhaps, but their choice of meaning for 'ahavah' is just that: their choice.
I left out "sexual desire" because I desired to show other meanings of the hebrew word for love. I have given examples how a person kissing another person and giving up their robes is not acts of a homosexual relationship, especially in the video of Yasser Arafat that I had posted. Furthermore, Peter loved Jesus more than women and Judas betrayed Jesus with a kiss.
I love Jesus more than I love my girlfriend. I can weap over him, kiss him, give him my robes and belongings to honor him, and say I love him with all my soul. This does not make me gay or homosexual.
I don't know what pagens teach, not to offend you =)
But as a christian, I have come to terms over the word "love."
I believe love has nothing to do with sex but has been perverted into a slang to mean that. Note: "make love" "lovin'"
1 Corinthians 12 and 13 are good examples of love.
In a relationship between two christians, sex is not the source of their love but only an expression of it through a physical act of bliss. But this is not what love is defined to be.
I've seen parents kiss their children on the lips and men with other men, but this is not homosexual. I personally am not customed to such things but it does not mean it is just because I am not customed to it.
Jonathan was the King's son. By Jonathan giving up all his weapons and armour and making a covenant with David, and not the other way around, he was affirming not only his friendship, but David as future king, not not Jonathan himself. Jonathan was humbling himself before David and giving him honor.
Of course Saul would get upset at David! He is protecting Saul's enemy! How would you feel if your own son protected your enemy! You'd be [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]ed off too wouldn't you and perverse is not to be confused with perverted, which I pointed out earlier by giving the actual definition of it.
I don't want to....accuse you or judge you of anything, but I have good ground to believe that Jonathan and David were not gay and were expressing a deep loving friendship. I also have grounds to believe that David, exposing himself to people, especially Saul, has nothing to do with an erection.
*sigh*
I used two websites that give a broader expression of what the hebrew word for love meant. Man to man love is a friendship, not a sexual one.
In fact, love in a way for sex would be lust, which is not the kind of love Jonathan and David had. They did not lust for one another nor did they fornicate with one another. Jonathan and David did not marry either. There was no sexual intercourse or relationship between David and Jonathan.