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thereselittleflower

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Yeah, we are supposed to love Jesus more than anyone or anything, period. If you love something as much as you love Jesus, that is idolatry!

That is a totally nonsensical REPLY TO my actual post. You just created a STRAWMAN and attacked it . . nothing more. .

Care to actually address what I actually said IN CONTEXT?


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I believe I would prefer to hear what you would share on deconstruction.


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It'd probably be an entertaining discussion. I really liked Schaeffer on that topic...

Which is the heart of the whole thing.
 
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That is a totally nonsensical REPLY TO my actual post. You just created a STRAWMAN and attacked it . . nothing more. .

Care to actually address what I actually said IN CONTEXT?


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you asked me if we could love other things as much as Jesus, did you not?


So "GREATER LOVE HATH NO MAN THAN THIS" only applied to Christ?

This is sort of ambiguous, what is the whole verse?
 
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agape relationship, where is your proof? some same sex marriages I know of have lasted WAY longer than most straight marriages, I know of. The last guy I talked to, his uncle is gay and has been "married" for 40 years, and happily to the SAME guy.

a·ga·pe2 [ah-gah-pey, ah-guh-pey]

1.the love of God or Christ for humankind.
2.the love of Christians for other persons, corresponding to the love of God for humankind.
3.unselfish love of one person for another without sexual implications; brotherly love.

...again, quite telling of our society that we automatically equate "love" between two unrelated people as something with sexual undertones.

In actuality this kind of love WOULD in fact be greater than that between married people because you don't require anything in return from the subject of your agape love.
 
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Again, you're just presenting the same strawman.


This would have to be discussed with my source, not me.




Trust me, having a closeted relationship is quite easy.


The grammatic use, and I suppose I'm supposed to take your word for it? Sorry, but I don't unless you can establish some ethos.


Another strawman.
Let me make this VERY simple:

In Biblical times men did not have relationships with women unless they were married or in some other way related.

David says that Jonathan's love was more wonderful that the love of women... either he is saying that Jonathan is better than any of David's sisters (lol), or David is saying that Jonathan is a better partner than any heterosexual romantic relationship.
 
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Again, you're just presenting the same strawman.
The interpretation was jaded on this point. I was pointing out the fact that there is no linguistic similarity with Gen. 2 in the text itself unless a person reads that into the text.

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This would have to be discussed with my source, not me.
I was merely providing an explanation. Whether it needs to be taken up with your source or not isn't the point.

Trust me, having a closeted relationship is quite easy.
I'm sure it is. But it's not so easy when you consider that David and Jonathan both lived in Saul's palace, and were waited on by Saul's servants.



The grammatic use, and I suppose I'm supposed to take your word for it? Sorry, but I don't unless you can establish some ethos.
Look at the text and the context of the word. There is absolutely nothing to present a case that the word was modified with any sexual connotation unless we imagine words are there that really aren't. That's how language works.

If I said "I hugged him and we both cried, until I surpassed him" -- is this a sexual statement? What's the subject of the second part of the sentence?



Another strawman.
Let me make this VERY simple:
False.

In Biblical times men did not have relationships with women unless they were married or in some other way related.
You are correct.

What about the emotional attachment, or does that have nothing to do with the topic being discussed in the biblical text itself? I guess whenever ME people talked about love, they meant sex? That's a statement directly out of current thought, but it has no historical weight in the interpretation of the text itself. There is no reasonable explanation as to why we should consider this topic to be regarding the overall form of a relationship when it's obvious from the grammatic format of the text that David is referencing the emotional quality of love itself, and not the form of relationships that love was involved in. In other words, he doesn't say "My marriage with you has surpassed the marriage of women." -- that's not even implied because love (non-sexual) between two men or two women was very common in the culture.
 
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yikes.

Saul tried to kill david repeatedly, correct?

If he was upset due to the homosexual relationship, he could have had him legally stoned to death. Very simple.

and love, does not immediately mean sexual relationship.

That isn't exegesis, it's isogesis, to read that in to it.
 
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LOL...this is more commentary not based on clear, concise, iron-clad facts. Both examples SHARE a comparison...a male-male relationship that is stronger than that of what it would be w/women, period.

Since when does the gay community support the selfless type of commitment David and Jonathan had for their families and each other. Two gay men leave their wives and their children and their families to live together. They don't return to their wives and continue to propogate and live normal lives. It would take a long, long time but the very characteristics of the lives David and Jonathan led are the complete opposite to what the gay agenda is all about (and the gay agenda has been the same in every century it has taken place). This should be obvious if one believes in the authenticity of the Bible. David and Jonathan respected their parents, respected authority, had wives and children, supported their families wholeheartedly, led Godly lives, and most obvious of all, were not socialists. They were humble men who committed their lives to God and sacrificed their lives for their country. I do not see even a shred of evidence that this is true among gay people.
 
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So all Gay people disrespect there familes, don't work, don 't go to church, don't love, don't support their countries and are socialist. Do you ever wonder how foolish you might sound to the reader? I notice you are from canada. Isn't Liberal Socialism and Canada synonomous? I know that I served my country. I served 3 years in the United States Army. I work hard, I finished school. I respect my family. Isn't canada the country that all the US draft Dodgers go to when they skip out on the Military? I know in America that we have this thing, where there is a belief that "all men are created equal" We are endowed by God with certain inalienable rights. life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. One must remember that the US is not a theocracy nor are e a soccialist country like our little cousins from the North
 
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So by your standards can I call the US a militant, fascist government? As an American AND Canadian, I highly encourage you to read up on Canada. The Socialist Party does not have much power here. Please don't generalize by assuming that liberal beliefs are the mindset of all Canadians.

P.S. Little? Canada has more land mass than the States.
 
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Oh goody. lotsa land. We might have to invade and impose our facist mindset upon the weak from up North. muahhhh muahhh
 
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First, let me say that I have same sex desires. I have struggled with it all my life. At one point in my life I was acting on them with no self control. If I were still single and thought for one second that homosexual acts were not sin, I would be the first to engage in them.

That being said, this thread really is ridiculous. On one hand, homosexuality is explicitly condemned in the Bible and people explain these verses away with far fetched explanations and interpretations. If you can take the verses of the Bible that specifically condemn homosexuality and explain them away, then there is not a sin in the Bible that you wouldnt be able to explain away.

Then on the other hand, they take something innocent (David and Jonathan's friendship) and read something like homosexuality into it. Specific words they can deny, an innocent friendship they read things into.

I think this is called rationalization. "I want to be able to do this, so I am going to find a way to justify it to myself and others."

As I said, I have same sex desires. I really, really, really wish I could act on them. But you really have to mutilate the scripture and read things into scripture that arent there to even pretend that it is not a sin. I wouldnt want to have to stand before a Holy and Almighty God one day and explain how I tried to convince anyone David was homosexual and/or bisexual.
 
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So are you saying that gay people are haters of their parents? you know that passage in Romans 1 is talking about idolatry, don't you?

Those ignorant scholars who make it about homosexuality, even verse 23 says they were given up for their pagan worship (worship to images of birds, reptiles, ..)

AGAIN, the conservative viewpoint makes as much sense as Pauly Shore movies.
 
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There is NO far reach at all, PERIOD!
The Bible does not talk about a homosexual relationship, it's always in conjunction w/some other negative aspect (raping, catamites, pagan worship, etc.) There aren't ANY passages in the Bible that show a loving relationship of same sex relationships condemned.
 
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In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion. Romans 1:27

It is referred to as "indecent acts" and a "perversion".

Leviticus 18 lists all kinds of sexual relations we are prohibited from - it says that we shouldnt have sexual relations with our mother, sister, daughter-in-law, aunt, sister-in-law, another man, or an animal. If you say that I can have sexual relations with another man, then I should also be able to have sexual relations with my mother or sister. Does the Bible ever condemn a loving committed sexual realtionship with your mother or sister?
 
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Yes, because they were straight men going into a pagan temple.
Did you read the Private messages I sent you when you FIRST were inquiring to me about certain things?
 
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Yes, because they were straight men going into a pagan temple.
Did you read the Private messages I sent you when you FIRST were inquiring to me about certain things?

So it is okay for me to have a sexual relationship with my mother or sister, as long as I dont go into a pagan temple to do it.

The prohibitions against sexual relations with your mother and your sister are in the same chapter as the prohibitions against sexual relations with another man. If you can explain one away, looks like the others are fair game too.
 
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Oh goody. lotsa land. We might have to invade and impose our facist mindset upon the weak from up North. muahhhh muahhh
sure, if you can get by our attack sled dogs. and our 3rd innuit division and their dreaded harpoon warfare.
 
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