- Apr 27, 2018
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Okay, so my kids name name is Sam and she just currently 17, 18 in 2 months. she is a senior in high school.Like a lot of people her age she decided to try her first thong around eight months ago I didn't think it was that big of a deal at first, as I usually wear thongs for panty lines and comfort reasons. It wasn't until I got a call from her principle, saying that her 'exposed undergarment' was a distraction in gym class. I figured it was just peeking out from her pants on accident and the school was freaking out over nothing, as they tend to do. However, when she got home she told me she was totally aware that her thong was showing, and that that was part of 'her style.' Since then, I've watched her do things like leave the house with normal pants on, and 'adjust' herself so her thong is sticking out by the time she reaches her friends car.
This all came to a head when we were having dinner at an upscale resteraunt, and lo and behold once she noticed that our waiter was an attractive man out came her underwear. The waiter was like 30, this was the kind of night where you just have to tip extra because of how awkward everything is.
I flipped my lid when we got back because we don't get to go out to eat at fine nice places very often. I told her originally that she wasn't allowed to wear thongs at all.
After talking with her a little bit I decided that it is important she be able to make her own choices as she is almost 18, and I felt hypocritical because she called me out for having a thong on as I as admonishing her. But I made it clear to her that there was going to be some punishment in order for her display at dinner She shrugged it off, said it was her body and that was that. it wasn't a particulalry productive discussion.
And I just couldn't believe it, because to me whale tail is kind of trashy for everyday wear and died in like 2004, and yet here she is like she just walked out of a Brittany Spears video. How could I show her that having your thong out in a place where a hamburger costs 30 bucks isn't a good look? I'm not going to just not allow her to wear thongs at all: I want to respect her autonomy as a young woman, but on the other hand I can't have her causing trouble at school just because she's going through a phase: Here's what I came up with: last halloween the costume I bought came with a cheap-o g string. (I was only buying it for the accessories, the outfit was a small i'm sure). The same underwear has lived at the bottom of my drawer for the last few years. I figured that maybe I could solve the whole issue if she had underwear that simply couldn't be worn that high.
We're roughly the same size give or take 20 pounds, with a similar butt shape, so I tried the g string on. As i'd suspected, there was definintely no way to wear it above pants. Score one for mom. One the other hand, it was very distracting and was apparent with any amount of movement.
The next day, when she came home from school I gave her a choice: She could still wear a thong to school, but it would have to be the g-string.
She opted for the string the next day, and while i checked in with her about it we haven't had a chance to really talk it over. Part of me worries that this might not be the most effective route, part of me thinks that is she wanted to have a string up her ass that bad then have at thee.
What do ya'll think? Is it a fitting punishment? Do two thongs make a right?
This all came to a head when we were having dinner at an upscale resteraunt, and lo and behold once she noticed that our waiter was an attractive man out came her underwear. The waiter was like 30, this was the kind of night where you just have to tip extra because of how awkward everything is.
I flipped my lid when we got back because we don't get to go out to eat at fine nice places very often. I told her originally that she wasn't allowed to wear thongs at all.
After talking with her a little bit I decided that it is important she be able to make her own choices as she is almost 18, and I felt hypocritical because she called me out for having a thong on as I as admonishing her. But I made it clear to her that there was going to be some punishment in order for her display at dinner She shrugged it off, said it was her body and that was that. it wasn't a particulalry productive discussion.
And I just couldn't believe it, because to me whale tail is kind of trashy for everyday wear and died in like 2004, and yet here she is like she just walked out of a Brittany Spears video. How could I show her that having your thong out in a place where a hamburger costs 30 bucks isn't a good look? I'm not going to just not allow her to wear thongs at all: I want to respect her autonomy as a young woman, but on the other hand I can't have her causing trouble at school just because she's going through a phase: Here's what I came up with: last halloween the costume I bought came with a cheap-o g string. (I was only buying it for the accessories, the outfit was a small i'm sure). The same underwear has lived at the bottom of my drawer for the last few years. I figured that maybe I could solve the whole issue if she had underwear that simply couldn't be worn that high.
We're roughly the same size give or take 20 pounds, with a similar butt shape, so I tried the g string on. As i'd suspected, there was definintely no way to wear it above pants. Score one for mom. One the other hand, it was very distracting and was apparent with any amount of movement.
The next day, when she came home from school I gave her a choice: She could still wear a thong to school, but it would have to be the g-string.
She opted for the string the next day, and while i checked in with her about it we haven't had a chance to really talk it over. Part of me worries that this might not be the most effective route, part of me thinks that is she wanted to have a string up her ass that bad then have at thee.
What do ya'll think? Is it a fitting punishment? Do two thongs make a right?