Has anyone ever done this, or found out their date was still married? And how did this turn out eventually?
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Just curious...
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Dating someone still married
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that is the sort of trouble that will get you a bullet sized hole right through your middle
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This. Married is married, regardless of whether or not the couple is separated and finalizing a divorce. Furthermore, a person so recently coming out of a marriage needs to focus on reestablishing their life. If children are involved it's even more crucial to have that time so that the children are not confused by their parent dating someone they see as trying to replace Mom or Dad.
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PolarBear3
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Yes, I have done this and now he's my husband. I would have answered the same way as the previous posts before I met him and learned about his situation ... which he was completely honest about - otherwise I would have dropped him in a heartbeat.
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SmileAndAHandshake
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Yes.
Well, no not me.. but my husband dated someone who was still married.
Me.
We dated while I was separated, but not legally divorced. But my marriage was very much over, and it unfortunately takes one whole year of separation to even file the paperwork for divorce here (let alone the months it takes for the judge to review it and give you a divorce, or reject it based on spelling mistakes or other stupidity
and make you re-file)So yeah, my husband dated me while I was still married, and that worked out pretty well for him
If I do say so myself 
LOLBut if you mean dating someone who is married but not separated... no, uh, not a good idea
Dating someone who is committed to someone else is just wrong. But if they are in the process of divorcing, I personally have no issue with it, because at that point they have decided that the marriage is over, and the commitment isn't there. Just because the legal process is slow, shouldn't hinder a person from moving on.
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I have. One of my ex's was going through a divorce due to her husband's infidelity.
I moved to be with her. We ended up living together for a month and then it all went downhill. I don't care what anyone can use to justify with the situation. I had so many ways to justify it.
Lesson learned. If you have to justify it you shouldn't be doing it to begin with because either one, something is wrong or two you are not at peace with it and if that is case you shouldn't be in it to begin with.
I will never date someone in that type of a situation ever again.
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