hey I need some advise. I know I jsut posted a diffrent post about a guy bugging me but this is kindda diffrent.
I am 17 year old, I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I don't have that much of a problem with that, because I wasn't ready for a boyfriend before it would have sidetracked me from God and I really didn't need that. but now I have gotten a lot closer to God, and I have a desire for a boyfriend. someone to hang out with that will protect me and be there for me. I have best friends but two live in Spain and one lives in CALi. and the other one that lives close to me is really busy all the time. so I never have anyone to hang out with. I'm not saying tha tI want a boyfriend jsut to say I have one. and I know now that if I had a boyfriend I wouldn't use him like I would have used a guy earlier in my life. but the only people that have ever told me that I was cute or that I was a great friend or someone they would want to date, were either online people that had never seen me, or mentaly sick people (literaly not figuratively) or my friends that are girl (for the things other then they would go out with me of course) anyway, I feel that the guy should ask the girl out, but I don't show my interest very well. and I hate to flirt. now I did know one guy a couple of years ago that I liked and that liked me back, but he was on my brothers baseball team and after a season of baseball I never saw him again. after that guy left and I didn't see him I missed him. and there was a song that always will remind me of him. I used to annoy my best friend becaus eI would talk about him all the time. and all the fun we had while at baseball games. so I finaly stopped talking about him. and I moved on finaly. I will never forget him or at least I won't foget him for a long time, but I'm ready for something more meaningful. I'm going to be starting college next fall and I know that there will be a lot of guys there, my best friend thinks that I'll find a guy my first week at college that I will want to date, but I'm not sure. and my mom is hopeing that I get a boyfriend so that I will stay in Md and not move back to Cali. so now I"m confused if I'm ready to see a guy or not. but it's something that I really want. now I know that God knows the desires of my heart and that he will fulfill them, and I'm a pretty patient person. but I'm wondering when the right time for me to date is.
if anyone has any encouragement or scripture for me please share it! I'm getting a little down in the dumps about this, because I have all this exciting stuff going on but pretty much no-one to share it with. and that's what I really desire is someone to share all these things with!
thanks
Je-JE
I am 17 year old, I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I don't have that much of a problem with that, because I wasn't ready for a boyfriend before it would have sidetracked me from God and I really didn't need that. but now I have gotten a lot closer to God, and I have a desire for a boyfriend. someone to hang out with that will protect me and be there for me. I have best friends but two live in Spain and one lives in CALi. and the other one that lives close to me is really busy all the time. so I never have anyone to hang out with. I'm not saying tha tI want a boyfriend jsut to say I have one. and I know now that if I had a boyfriend I wouldn't use him like I would have used a guy earlier in my life. but the only people that have ever told me that I was cute or that I was a great friend or someone they would want to date, were either online people that had never seen me, or mentaly sick people (literaly not figuratively) or my friends that are girl (for the things other then they would go out with me of course) anyway, I feel that the guy should ask the girl out, but I don't show my interest very well. and I hate to flirt. now I did know one guy a couple of years ago that I liked and that liked me back, but he was on my brothers baseball team and after a season of baseball I never saw him again. after that guy left and I didn't see him I missed him. and there was a song that always will remind me of him. I used to annoy my best friend becaus eI would talk about him all the time. and all the fun we had while at baseball games. so I finaly stopped talking about him. and I moved on finaly. I will never forget him or at least I won't foget him for a long time, but I'm ready for something more meaningful. I'm going to be starting college next fall and I know that there will be a lot of guys there, my best friend thinks that I'll find a guy my first week at college that I will want to date, but I'm not sure. and my mom is hopeing that I get a boyfriend so that I will stay in Md and not move back to Cali. so now I"m confused if I'm ready to see a guy or not. but it's something that I really want. now I know that God knows the desires of my heart and that he will fulfill them, and I'm a pretty patient person. but I'm wondering when the right time for me to date is.
if anyone has any encouragement or scripture for me please share it! I'm getting a little down in the dumps about this, because I have all this exciting stuff going on but pretty much no-one to share it with. and that's what I really desire is someone to share all these things with!
thanks
Je-JE