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:cry: ummm.... im not really sure wat i was planning to say here... or if i should be wasting a thread on this and wasting your time and wasting spcae in the forum... so i will say sorry in advance...
ummm... im just having a really hard time atm with everything... i am in my second last week at highschool which is a bit scary and sad and at the moment am on exam block and i always freak out around exam time... :cry: ... and i know i have to do really well because i didnt do well last term because i wasnt in a good mental state... and im just stressing out...
I havent been sleeping very weel either so i am really exhasuted and tired which isnt helping things... i have been having nightmares and stuff... and waking up like every hour... :sigh:

I have also really been struggling with fighting my SI and ED urges... and im so tired of fighting them... i just want to give in... i want to get away from it all... everything...
sorry for wasting your time... i just needed to vent... :sigh:
 
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"Be still and know that I am God"

Take a short time off from studying and just talk to God and ask Him for His peace and ask Him to help you concentrate. Getting stressed won't help you do well. You can only do so much studying with the time you have so just do what you can.
Maybe try taking something to help you sleep because you won't be able to study well if you're tired.
You haven't wasted space on the forum, you need help and we're here to encourage and support you.
I've been writing exams too and it hasn't been easy. I've felt exactly how you're feeling too. PM me anytime.
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Hi Beckybooiloveu

Darl, I really hear and understand what you're going through...I went through it when I did my year 12 exams and I know it's horrible. As u r also in Australia, I thought I'd just see whether you know about applying for illness/misadventure for exams and overall assessment?...that's the only way I got my year 12 because, like you, I wasn't in a good mental state. You only need a medical certificate and/or a letter from the school counsellor, or your personal counsellor (if you have one). Hang in there. Sweetie, what you wrote in your posting sounds so much like me at your age and it brings a tear to my eye because it is such a horrible feeling. But you know our loving heavenly Father, which i didn't at your age. It's a long battle...one I still haven't won, but it will be worth it because God puts us through all these horrible trials to make us who He wants us to be. Just remember, as you cry, Jesus is with you; as you lie awake fighting the urge to hurt yourself, Jesus is there fighting with you through it all.

Praying for you. PM me if you like! Wishing you all the best.

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beckybooiloveu said:
:cry: ummm.... im not really sure wat i was planning to say here... or if i should be wasting a thread on this and wasting your time and wasting spcae in the forum... so i will say sorry in advance...
ummm... im just having a really hard time atm with everything... i am in my second last week at highschool which is a bit scary and sad and at the moment am on exam block and i always freak out around exam time... :cry: ... and i know i have to do really well because i didnt do well last term because i wasnt in a good mental state... and im just stressing out...
I havent been sleeping very weel either so i am really exhasuted and tired which isnt helping things... i have been having nightmares and stuff... and waking up like every hour... :sigh:

I have also really been struggling with fighting my SI and ED urges... and im so tired of fighting them... i just want to give in... i want to get away from it all... everything...
sorry for wasting your time... i just needed to vent... :sigh:
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Why do you think you're having the nightmares. Sometimes if you can figure out what's causing them,
it'll help get rid of them. It's not a waste of time. When you have problems it's best to find an answer. Do you think it might be the stress of the exams?
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You are not wasting anyone's time. Your life and who you are is significant and that is what this forums is about is to express our feelings.

There is hope and you will overocome. Don't look at the mountain but only look at one shoval at a time. Take step by step and realize the Lrod is there to help you and lean on him.

A good scripture is 1 peter 5:7 "7Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you." He really does care about you and wants you to give your concerns, worries to him.

Peace be with you.
 
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Hey Bec :hug:

I'm sorry, but the only one of these problems I can really empathise with you on is the constant nightmares. I have nightmares all the time too, never any good dreams anymore. I know how that is but I want you to know I'm praying for you for all of your struggles right now, ok? That's all I can really do for you right now Bec, I'm sorry that I don't have any ideas to offer as well...

and if you need to talk i'm always open...
 
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