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Curiosity

Living4Him03

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Tonight when I was talking to my boyfriend I told him that I have this giftcard from blockbuster i cant use that i will probably mail to him so he can use it sometime. Well, then he asked if i know how to send giftcards on amazon.com. I told him I didn't know you could do that and he explained. then he said he had just sent one. Well, I was honestly dying to know who he sent it to, but I didn't ask because I feel like it's not really my business. I asked him if he was planning to send anything to his mom or sister's for valentine's and he said no that he's a poor guy. I am pretty sure that if he didnt send something to his mom and sister's that he will not send me something. I didn't get the email you get when someone sends you the gift card thing. So, I know it's not me. Still, I want to know who he sent one to! they must be important! Do you think it's wrong of me to ask? Guys, if your girlfriend asked such a question, would you be offended and think she's nosy and it's not her business? Or would you tell her? I feel bad for wanting to know but I'm so curious! I'm not asking out of being jealous or accusing or anything, I just am curious about it since he mentioned it. I think if it were for me he would not have said anything.:blush:
 

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I know a lot of guys won't share my opinions, but I love it when my girl asks for details on stuff like that. I actually like knowing that she might get a little jealous if she thought I might be giving something to another female - just because it makes you feel like your significant other thinks you are good enough for others to be interested in you.:) If it's really bothering you, ask him. Because if you don't, it will come out at some point anyway. You'll be arguing over who forgot to do the dishes and you'll be like "Oh YEAH!? Well who did you send that GIFTCARD to!!??" :D Maybe it doesn't always happen like that, but I have seen it. Just ask him. IF he's an understanding guy, he'll tell you. If he won't tell you, he's either being shady or he DID get it for you. I almost always let it slip when I get my girl something.:)
 
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Hehe...your post made me laugh :) I'm not worried about it being another female, I know he woudl have said who it was to. Maybe he was seeing if I'd be curious about it. I think it was for a birthday or wedding or something. I sent him a Valentines card and he didn't say much about it except "thanks"...he's just not big into commercialized holidays and how superficial they have become in alot of ways. My birthday isn't for awhile. So, basically I have concluded that it's not for me and I don't want to daydream about it being for me then find out it's not and be really disappointed and take it out on him. I don't think he meant to get me that curious about it. Also, he doesn't tolerate the jealous type. He likes a girl who will trust him and not be whiny and dependent. So, I'm just going to forget about it and see if he mentions it again later on. :)
 
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Hey, just wanted to make it clear that my b/f isn't an awful guy or anything! He's really sweet, but he just is not into holidays like Valentines! I don't hold it against him and I hope when I said I know the giftcard isn't for me that I didn't make it sound like he wouldn't do that for me! :)
 
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Oh I have an update! The giftcard was for his nephew whose birthday was this past Sunday...they had a little party and he sent the giftcard to his sis earlier. So it was pretty much as I suspected. I did get a short email from him wising me a Happy Vday which mean a lot because getting him to email is like pulling teeth ;)
 
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