Counting Down...Six Months!

[Mrs K 2004]

Six Months from today is my wedding!!

And I have barely stared planning! ACK!!

My fiance and I are starting pre marriage counseling with a Christian Therapist this week I'm pretty excited for that as well!

 

[LN]

YAY!!!

I'm working at a wedding almost every weekend (I'm a photographer) so if you have any questions about ANYTHING - let me know!!!

I really really really don't meant to scare you but I have stopped taking bookings for 2004 because I am all filled up. You might want to get started!

 

[highergrounds]

Wow in the same boat with you man! Mine is 50 days away!
As for planning hmm going on.
Pre-marital counselling is good. It sets me thinking!
Any other issues? Reminders are welcomed

 

[highergrounds]

Marriage 2004 who is next?

 

[JillLars]

Wow, I'm surprised you can plan it in 6 months, I'm getting married in 2 years and 5 months and I've already started planning, where I live you have to book a hall and the church 1.5-2 years in advance. Best of luck to you!

 

[Mrs K 2004]

LN,
I am also a photographer! And I too have finished taking bookings for 2004! Although I have a good friend (who I used to work with in a studio) who will be our photographer.



As for our wedding it's on a Sunday (so nt as many places are booked for Sundays) we're planning on going to church with our families; then lunch, then I will go and get changed and ready!! Then an early evening wedding!

 

[TheFirstNoelle]

Six Months from today is my wedding!!

And I have barely stared planning! ACK!!

My fiance and I are starting pre marriage counseling with a Christian Therapist this week I'm pretty excited for that as well!

Congrats! 7 months from...tomorrow I think....is my wedding! Lots of planning to do, premarital counselling, awkward difficult discussions about what kind of contraception we will end up using....

 

[PegasusOnFire]

Congrats to those of you getting married this year. Marriage is a wonderful thing. One word of advice from a recent bride, RELAX.

 

[JL_Marais]

I'm worried & don't know if my wedding in 2 months would be the right thing or not. Very worried. We just fight too much, but in good times things go well. I think we're just too different. I'm a PC nerd and she can't entertain herself. We disagree about things. I don't know - anyway the full story is too long to explain here.

 

[LN]

How old are you?

Don't hesitate to postpone if you are not sure if its the right thing!

 

[JL_Marais]

posponed before... it was sort of due to admin reasons, but yeah. i'm suffering. i feel stressed all the time. i have to make the final arrangements for the wedding purely because people have to book accomodation (have to send invites etc.)

sarah loves me. i might be more scared to hurt her than anything. i love her with my heart, but less these days with my head. i'm scared of the whole kids thing as well. she pushes the kids topic very hard.

she's a good person and i trust her. i just don't know if we are compatible.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its quite a scary situation to be in.


oh, and i'm 26. want to marry me?

She used to be all I ever wanted. Have I just grown used to her? Is that why I don't appreciate her anymore or is it the recent fighting that makes me feel like we are set up for failure.

 

[pmarquette]

a few things to consider :

As with Genesis .... the book of beginnings , so is the first year of marriage , the seeds of beginnings in marriage covenant... at some point one of the 4 categories will cause some friction .... as long as you can talk , resolve , and tweak things , you have a chance of making the distance ...
FORM =
family -- holidays , long weekends , vactions and travel
occupation -- overtime , evenings , weekends
recreation -- relaxation , vacations
money -- spend / save / lack of / wise use of

If you as a couple , assess priorities :
#1 God first in life , marriage
don't let offense come between you

#2 you as now 1 flesh , by covenant
let no one separate you

#3 parents are valued advisors
not your superiors

#4 friends are a blessing , but
not to come between you as a couple

#5 resolve discrepancies as they come
comprimise , put behind you and go forward