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ned flanders sums up 90% of the christian male population, especially the under 25's.

doormats that have no spine and beg for approval of women by sacrificing their own self worth.

interesting list of insults here, and my response to Ethnog was in jest seeing I was insulted.

I haven't disrespected women, but have been attacked for not conforming to the stereotypical emasculated views on dating.

Well you kinda right about the Christian male population. Iv seen my share of guys who walk down the path of desperately seeking female approval.

But, on the other hand if you see examples of that here. THen man up and point them out and don't beat around the bush with made up facts. Made up % and facts mean nothing.

Clearly you are upset with the girly men in the Christian circles and you feel a lot of them are on here also. Well hey talk to them and find out their side of the story. THen later you can bash um if ya like.
 
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Thanks for proving to me that men are expected to grovel.

If a guy isn't a girl-boy that begs for scraps of female approval he's a "misogynist" or "disrespects" women.

I haven't said anything "disrespectful" to women.
I just haven't kissed your feet and begged for your approval with undeserved compliments and "flirting".

pretty hilarious to watch these "i kissed dating goodbye" girly-boys act like girls and wonder why they are alone.

Dude, if there's one thing I've learned around here, is that FLATTERY gets you everywhere!

This is why I have only a few friends. I'm not opposed to giving a compliment or trying to brighten someone's day - I like doing these things. But if you really want to climb the CF social ladder, you WILL grovel, and you WILL tie people to you emotionally by feeding them a lot of Bull Stuff about themselves. It's super manipulative, and all done in the name of love. I hate it, personally.

Welcome to my friends list, if you're interested. If you are a sock, I'll find out eventually so it would not be wise to bother. ;)

And I still disagree about your stereotype. But it's cool.
 
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Dude, if there's one thing I've learned around here, is that FLATTERY gets you everywhere!

This is why I have few friends. I'm not opposed to giving a compliment or trying to brighten someone's day - I like doing these things. But if you really want to climb the CF social ladder, you WILL grovel, and you WILL tie people to you emotionally by feeding them a lot of Bull Stuff about themselves.

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Does that mean you are at the bottom of the CF social ladder?
 
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Does that mean you are at the bottom of the CF social ladder?

Haha. There might be a few poor souls beneath me, but I think I can see farther looking up than down. ;)

I'm also in Australia, am 40 today and well...just sort of unavailable largely for these reasons. So, I'm not desperately seeking love in CF Singles. I care about some people here and it's a pretty bad habit.
 
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Haha. There might be a few poor souls beneath me, but I think I can see farther looking up than down. ;)

I'm also in Australia, am 40 today and well...just sort of unavailable largely for these reasons. So, I'm not desperately seeking love in CF Singles. I care about some people here and it's a pretty bad habit.

well hey as long as there are people below me in the CF social ladder, I can pat myself on the back and say "Good Job Self" lol. Im just kiddin, I just thought it was funny you mentioned a CF SOcial ladder.

Happy 40th BTW.
 
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well hey as long as there are people below me in the CF social ladder, I can pat myself on the back and say "Good Job Self" lol. Im just kiddin, I just thought it was funny you mentioned a CF SOcial ladder.

Happy 40th BTW.

Thanks man. I noticed you are a guitar player that likes Dream Theater. That's super cool imo. :thumbsup:

I play keyboard and compose. Mostly classical type stuff though.

Now where were we with cooking? Oh wait...everyone ate hours ago...
 
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I'm confused by the question. How does someone live alone and not know how to cook?
I can't speak for anyone else, but I've never lived by myself. I'm only in college and we have a food plan. When I'm left to my own devices at home, I only make simple meals.
 
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Thanks man. I noticed you are a guitar player that likes Dream Theater. That's super cool imo. :thumbsup:

I play keyboard and compose. Mostly classical type stuff though.

Now where were we with cooking? Oh wait...everyone ate hours ago...
hey how did you figure out I liked dream theater lol. YUp DT is def top of my list.
 
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I'm confused by the question. How does someone live alone and not know how to cook?

Gnaw on one's arm slowly, relishing on the taste of dead skin flakes and hair.









Happy birthday, Stravinsk.
 
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I can't speak for anyone else, but I've never lived by myself. I'm only in college and we have a food plan. When I'm left to my own devices at home, I only make simple meals.

Well, when you live alone, one of the great things is that you get to eat what you want to eat. If you want to eat two minute noodles, frozen meals, and Chinese takeaways every day, then that's great. You don't have to learn how to use a stove or a cutting board. But if you want to eat proper food, then at some stage you're going to have to learn how to cook.
 
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how are cooking and baking effeminate? Some of the best chefs/bakers in the world are men.

Hopefully I will be one of them!! I love to cook! I've been taking cooking lessons since I was 14 and I went to college to get my cooking degree to become a chef and have been working in the restaurant industry since I was 18.

I can cook just about anything. People can usually find me in the kitchen :cool:
 
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