- Nov 10, 2006
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I talked with my girlfriend this weekend, and she told me that she would still marry me even if I was Muslim. That has been the main thing stopping me converting to Islam - I don't want to lose her. She is a catechumen in the Orthodox Church, and I told her that she could still be Christian, as Islam allows Muslims to marry "People of the Book". Furthermore, I think we could get married as soon as I accept Islam, because marriage in Islam is simple, the writing of a contract between the husband and wife. We could then have the wedding party (walimah) back in Malaysia, where she is from.
I think that I am going to become a Muslim, but I'm going to do quite a bit more reading before I do. The mosque here is just 5 mins away from the university, and I have no classes in the afternoons, so I'll go to the mosque library to read the Qur'an and to read more about Islam. The mosque is pretty much open during the day in Ramadan. I know I could convert right now, though, which is far better than the Orthodox system, where a priest tells you when you can convert and be baptized. Apparently your prayers aren't as strong until you're baptized, so it seems that the priest is withholding the full power of the grace of God (glorious and exalted is He). My girlfriend has also talked about being baptized in the Coptic Church, because 1) the priest might baptize her quicker than the Antiochian Orthodox priest and 2) she likes the falafels there.
I think that I am going to become a Muslim, but I'm going to do quite a bit more reading before I do. The mosque here is just 5 mins away from the university, and I have no classes in the afternoons, so I'll go to the mosque library to read the Qur'an and to read more about Islam. The mosque is pretty much open during the day in Ramadan. I know I could convert right now, though, which is far better than the Orthodox system, where a priest tells you when you can convert and be baptized. Apparently your prayers aren't as strong until you're baptized, so it seems that the priest is withholding the full power of the grace of God (glorious and exalted is He). My girlfriend has also talked about being baptized in the Coptic Church, because 1) the priest might baptize her quicker than the Antiochian Orthodox priest and 2) she likes the falafels there.

