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FIGHTING FIRE WITH FIRE

I was sharing with a friend, this evening, an analogy that came to me today about how to do battle with the wildfire of OCD thoughts that rage within our heads. Instead of throwing water at them i.e., looking for reassurance, arguing with the thoughts, trying to solve them etc., I think it's better to do a "controlled burn". To do this we allow the thoughts to be there to a certain extent, on the periphery of our brain without battling them. Another way to do this is to actually start a smaller fire to fight back. How we can do this is to schedule a time to start the fire, i.e. let the thoughts be there and also to encourage them by exaggerating them for a time in order to try and do a scheduled ruminating or worrying time. In doing this we will eventually desensitize our brains to the thought.. the controlled burns keep the fire from spreading and eventually it will burn itself out.. and the thought's wild fire quality will be extinguished.
Just some thoughts I had today about fighting the spikes of OCD. Wanted to share in case it clicks with anyone else.
Blessings from the currently "smoldering" Mitzi ;)
(No flash fires for today...but who knows about tomorrow.)
 

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Mitzi,

You are on fire!

Great analogy! This is so helpful. I was explaining ERP therapy to my small group, one of whom is a pastor. He said fight it "by any means necessary."

We need to be open to strategies that are tactful and even "militant".

Marcum X (aka Marc B)

P.S. Enjoy the Lord's Day all......
My niece is getting baptised and I'm stoked!
 
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Thanks Marc,
Glad you liked the analogy. I love analogies they really help me to understand things better.
Now to just be disciplined enough to put it into practice on a daily basis.
How exciting to see your niece baptised! Our newest grandson was dedicated to Christ by his parents a couple weeks ago..so I can relate.
Blessings, Mitzi
 
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