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Josiah said:Yes, to "reschedule" and "to practice" IS doing something...
Now, if you were Shaker and were insisting on abstinence - you'd have a tiny point (well, maybe not). But that's no longer the RCC position (it never was, officially, I understand). The RCC is NOT saying to married couples, "DO NOTHING - abstain from sex, be a sexless couple." No. Not since the 1960's sexual revolution. It's saying "HAVE sex. DO something! At least as often as that Baptist couple in the apartment next door! BUT you may DO so contraceptively, using our preferred birth control method - let us teach you how (in fact, if you want to get married in the Church, we require that we teach you how to DO this)!"
I don't recall mentioning condoms....
But yes, when sex is rescheduled from certain times, when that action is taken, that action lessens the odds of conceiving - thus it is a contraceptive practice. If you teach them HOW to do birth control, HOW to best schedule things, that is active and that is contra-ceptive.
Yes - if the marriage became sexless (because sex is bad or immoral or whatever, not to avoid conception) that would be a different issue - but that's not the issue here (unless you are confusing Shakerism with modern Catholicism).
but not having sex is not doing something.
The new RCC position is NOT to do nothing (you seem to have the Catholicism confused with Shakerism).
Yes, my teachers said that it was the FORMER (unofficial) common Catholic position (before the sexual revolution) that couples that did not want or should not have kids should be sexless (do nothing) but that's no longer the RCC position (it never was officially): The one for the past 50 years or so is that couples may have sex just as much as the Baptist couple next door - more if they like! But they can DO it contraceptively - using sound birth control methods - the RCC will teach them how (it may require them to take the class). PRACTICING this birth control method is obviously doing something, rescheduling is doing something, having sex is doing something.
What you seem to be promoting is not Catholicism, it's Shakerism. They don't have sex- contraceptively or otherwise, they do nothing; they don't DO anything. But we're talking about Catholicism here (post sexual revolution), we're talking PRACTICING family planning, DOING birth control, HAVING sex - contraceptively.
are you saying it is wrong to close one's heart to the spouse and to new life through God
Um, I invite you to read what I've posted.
Again, you seem to have post sexual revolution Catholicism confused with Shakerism. No, I'm not a Shaker, and I've posted NOTHING about why one should be sexless or should share sex. If you think that withholding sex in marriage, having a sexless marriage, is opening your heart to your spouse and to new life - that's your viewpoint. I never said or implied ANYTHING of the sort (or anything related to it). I think you are confusing the new RCC morality with Shakerism.
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