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reg said:
it is legal to kill in america but only if the person is weak and defenselise and cant even talk or run away........................it is called abortion
Did you know that in missouri it was legal to kill a mormon up until the 1960-70s(06 to 70-ish, not sure of the exact date of when someone noticed that unused law and took care of it) Kinda funny, actually.... Only in america.
 
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From a biological point of view, once the sperm meets the egg it becomes a living thing apart from your body. It's genetic code is different from you. I am totally against partial birth abortions (once you've gone that far you should stay the whole ride). I am in favor of abortion when it comes to rape, incest, or health of the mother. The problem with that is people may start to claim "rape" when they want an abortion...
If you're mature enough to have sexual relations, you're mature enough to have a baby.
 
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levi501 said:
please explain how you came up with this assumption?
I don't think women enjoy getting abortions, but hey I'm not a woman...

Statistically speaking, there are many women who do go back for more than 2 (although they is a small minority). I think if you go back for more than one, you've got your priorities messed up and probably don't even care that you are reckless with sex. If you are raped and get pregnant twice, than what I said doesn't apply.
 
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In A Perfect World said:
I don't think women enjoy getting abortions, but hey I'm not a woman...

Statistically speaking, there are many women who do go back for more than 2 (although they is a small minority). I think if you go back for more than one, you've got your priorities messed up and probably don't even care that you are reckless with sex. If you are raped and get pregnant twice, than what I said doesn't apply.
what about my posts made you assume that I think women enjoy getting abortions?
 
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In A Perfect World said:
You seem to think that people enjoy getting abortions. It's never an easy decision, unless you have so many you become numb. But most woman don't go back for more...


levi501 said:
please explain how you came up with this assumption?

I'll support his statement. We didn't see a lot of repeats from the first timers. We did however see some of the same patients over and over again, but they were the ones who'd had 3+ abortions already. Most women (and young girls) do not repeat, because it's a painful decision. Out of the ones I spoke with, and examined, there were only a small percentage that were not in anguish over their choice to have an abortion. They knew it was a person, and they were deeply saddened, but they still felt that it was the best choice for both of them. I don't personally agree with that, but I also don't believe that I have the right to take that choice away from them, in accordance with the laws as they are now written. Again, (said this before in other topics) I do not support the idea that it's up to the U.S. Supreme Court. I don't think the court should be allowed to decide whether the people can or cannot choose to have an abortion. This is a choice that should be up to "the people". We should be allowed to vote on it. We all agree that it is the individual who makes the choice to abort or not abort, and some of us oppose that choice, believing it should be removed, but what sense does it make for a court to determine something that belongs to the people. We should be allowed to vote on that. I think each state should be allowed to vote, and whatever the people decide in that state, should stand. I don't believe it should be a nationwide vote, like for the presidential elections, (electoral votes) because I think the people are properly represented in that format.

I don't want to hijack the thread and make it another vote yes or no on abortion topic, and frankly, I'm tired of discussing this topic. We've talked it into the ground. There will be no agreement between all of us, at least not in this realm.
 
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reg said:
it is legal to kill in america but only if the person is weak and defenselise and cant even talk or run away........................it is called abortion

Do you know what's worse? It's also legal to kill in America if you get 'em while they're still single cells with a tail, wrap millions of them up in a rubber tube, and throw it in the toilet.
 
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BlueWolf35948 said:
No law holds domain over privacy, except those futile few that have everything to do with what Christians seem to want out of and over their fellow countrymen - control.

Who burned the library at Alexandria? Case in point.



This is a very arrogant statement and it goes to show how much you really know about the teachings of Jesus Christ and how open your mind is. If you have such an open mind, why is it the actions of others dictates your opinion of the whole? Not very open minded is it. What, just because the terrorists in the Middle East are Muslim, does that neccesary mean that all Muslims are prone to violence and destruction? No. You can condemn the acts of a few, but don't judget the majority.
 
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I agree that it is a good idea to encourage younger people to wait before having sex. Waiting until marriage is a nice idea too. However, I don't think you can expect this of all people because all people are not the same. People do stupid things and make mistakes. I will never, ever judge someone that is put into the situation where they might have to have an abortion. It is not an easy decision and not one they take lightly. Early term abortions, to me, are not killing anything; if it doesn't have a brain, it isn't really a "person" as we know the term. When it's got a brain, then I am all for banning its abortion.

So you think that it would be ok to kill the brain dead too?

What happened to human dignity?

At the moment of conception a baby is a baby. It has everything necessary, including a brain.

Actually here's a few facts for you:
By 6 weeks all vital organs are present: brain waves can be recorded.
as you might be aware most abortions are done around this time.
By weeks a baby responds to painful stimuli. It can grasp things.

By 10 weeks it has fingerprints and footprints and sucks his thumb!

By 11 weeks he inhales and exhales amniotic fluid

By 16 weeks fingernails, eyelashes present
 
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SaintRita said:
We need to educate our children to be celebate and to save themselves for marriage.

Any well-designed sex education program will naturally include this option. However, it needs to be more than the five words "Just Say No To Sex", because that obviously is not working. There needs to be, for those who want to be celibate, a program that teaches them how best to achieve that.

But forcing celibacy on everybody has never worked, does not work now, and will never work. Those who want to have sex need to be shown how not to get pregnant (unless they want to have a child) and how to stay healthy.


So, I'll state the obvious again:

The most effictive way of reducing the number of abortions is to increase sex education and increase access to contraception.
 
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