confused about sexuality

[susiie]

I am a married/mom/Christian for over 15 years. It think I am attracted to another woman. Everywhere I go I hear her name,(first or last) A certain song pops in my head one day, I bump into her at the store she is humming that same song. Its like something is drawing me to her. When we do talk it's like I get lost in her eyes. I hate feeling this way. All I know is to pray & rebuke it. I've never felt this way before. I totally love & hate these feelings at the same time. please pray for me. I have no desire to have sex with her, (yuck) but to be with her and to touch her face and hold & kiss her, I think about all the time. I'm not gay.

 

[Key]

Ummm.. ok first off.. your right... your not gay, or homosexual. You may be experiencing a need for affection, that you may or may not get at home, and because you respect and have strong emotional connections to this woman, your mind shifts into this gear.

I would first see if you are getting enough attention in the love and sexuality direction at home.. if not.. then this might simply be a manifestation of that.

People do not just "Turn Homosexual" later in life, it's a sexual orientation that normally occurs at puberty, and continues along that line for their life. It might occur a little later, but not much.

What you are experiencing.. has nothing to do with your sexuality.

I hope I have provided you an answer.

God Bless

Key

 

[Sketcher]

I'll pray for you. Why not train your thoughts to your husband when this occurs?

 

[Confess]

No matter the circumstances, if this were a man or a woman you were attracted to, you must flee from this person before temptation overcomes you.

PERIOD.

 

[smile]

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