confession and repentence question

[Hoankan]

I messed up very badly recently. It took some time for the situation to sink in on its full depth and implications. It caused a lot of regret on my part and I've worked diligently to make amends. As soon as I can, I will confess it to Father George.

But that got me thinking. In this case, I have worked to repent of my sinful action and fix that which I did wrong before I confessed and asked forgiveness. It has worked out but is it usually wise or should I confess first if at all possible then try to set things right?

 

[Annoula]

my personal opinion is that we should do what we can to fix things the soonest possible.
then we should confess and not try to avoid confession just because we made up.

your spiritual father will be a better guide to that of course.

 

[Protoevangel]

I agree with Annoula. Especially in your case, where it can be weeks before seeing your priest. In a situation where one will see their priest before having a chance to make amends, then of course, the confession should come first. Do whatever you have the opportunity to do, and do not neglect following through with whichever is left.

Just an opinion.