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xMinionX said:Whatever the rational is being used for people loathing and being offended by the Confederate flag, the fact is that people are terribly offended by it. This, in itself, isn't a reason to take it down. But it has become a symbol for oppression against black people, and will likely remain so for a long time.
Just because a symbols original meaning was harmless does not mean that it's present meaning is. Just look at the Swastika. It used to be a very spiritual symbol, until Hitler and the Nazis defiled it. http://www.manwoman.net/swastika/swastika.html
jj3pa said:My personal opinion is that its amazing that we have an open enough society that we can even discuss the ability to fly the flag of a group that tried to overthrow the government ... many other countries would not only disallow the flying of the flag, but also mention of it
I think flying it can be in bad taste sometimes ... over a state courthouse for instance ... and I personally don't understand the attraction, but I'm not a southerner.
It seems that some consider it almost as repulsive as some view a swatstika ...
You know what? I have a question, and I'm not being snotty. Just what is it you're all so proud of when you say you're proud of being a southerner? I could list many things that wouldn't make me say that, so I just thought I'd ask and see if I get a real answer.GraceReborn said:By the way... I live in Georgia. And happen to be a proud southern man. Thanks
Its funny...but I as a southerner got the opposite from what he said...until I read this.....most southerners feel it was the north who overthrew the government and upset the peace, etc....not the southerners. We call it the War of Northern Aggression.shomethadoor said:The Confederacy didn't try to overthrow the gov't, they believed it had usurped the Constitution (which it had) so they just wanted to break away from it and be left alone to govern themselves, which is totally different.
I don't have a problem with it. If you are talking about at city hall, I might depending on the circumstances.Lillithspeak said:I certainly wouldn't want it flown in my hometown.
Nor would I if I were a Scot. Do you have similar objections to the Union Jack, the flag that was used by the English in oppressing the Scots and exterminating their independence?I don't call myself British either.
Similar to my own reasons why I wouldn't want it flying over the Capitol of Virginia either. I have no problem with the flag, but other Virginians do. Besides, the war ended long ago and I see no reason to fight over this.fromtheright said:When the issue of the Confederate flag atop Alabama's state capitol came up, my first view was to oppose pulling it down as part of our history but my wife made a point which convinced me otherwise: blacks in Alabama are citizens too and the flag is the symbol of a period and a "nation" in which their ancestors were enslaved, whether it directly symbolizes slavery or not, or whether the Civil War was fought over slavery or not. When I add to that that the flag was hoisted in the midst of the depths of battles over segregation (yes, I understand the Constitutional issues involved in Brown v. Board, as to states' rights) is further argument against its being there. South Carolina and Georgia can wrestle this issue for themselves, but this is one white Alabamian who is proud that the Stars and Bars came down, and that the State Capitol became the Capitol for all of Alabama.
Left in the oven too long? Happens to me every time I try to cook...mhatten said:How did Ham become brown?
Besides the KKK's weird idea of "racial" history, this is probably because the Confederate Battle Flag or Southern Cross was modeled after the English flag. It's not the fault of the English and they should be happy with their flag.TheRealityOfMan said:What I find even more sensitive though is the English flag - the flag of St. George. This is can often be associated with racism and white supremacy even (it actually reminds me of Ku Klux Klan gear).
Too true.It all depends on the spirit in which it is flown I guess.
We are a weird country, aren't we?jj3pa said:My personal opinion is that its amazing that we have an open enough society that we can even discuss the ability to fly the flag of a group that tried to overthrow the government ... many other countries would not only disallow the flying of the flag, but also mention of it.
Yet Hindus use this symbol even today. Should they change it? I don't think so.xMinionX said:Whatever the rational is being used for people loathing and being offended by the Confederate flag, the fact is that people are terribly offended by it. This, in itself, isn't a reason to take it down. But it has become a symbol for oppression against black people, and will likely remain so for a long time.
Just because a symbols original meaning was harmless does not mean that it's present meaning is. Just look at the Swastika. It used to be a very spiritual symbol, until Hitler and the Nazis defiled it. http://www.manwoman.net/swastika/swastika.html
Over 600,000 deaths by soldiers from both sides. Still our costliest war ever. As for civilian deaths mostly in the South, but some in the North, I do not know what the figures are. I suspect they would be around 250,000.tulc said:That seems a little high, unless you mean for both sides?
tulc(who could find a listing for 290,000 southern dead)
L O L !!IrishJohan said:Left in the oven too long? Happens to me every time I try to cook...
Oh wait, you were speaking of a different Ham. Never mind.
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