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ecuison

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Last several days. A group of our tech support analysts went from offices to cubicles. Well, the complaint was from a "manager" saying he got 2 "old" 19" monitors and wanted his 2 "new" 19 inch monitors anyways. I was going to tell him shut his face because he was one of the people to put the analysts in a cubed environment. Bunch of whiners.
 
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I received a compliment just today :) A client at my office complimented me on my hands. She said they are beautiful and very feminine and that she wishes she had hands like mine :)

Ohh....I know those types of hands...very nice lol. I don't have those hands myself but I have never minded mine....they are not really long or really short....and I like them. Although probably not as awesome as yours:p
 
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Last several days. A group of our tech support analysts went from offices to cubicles. Well, the complaint was from a "manager" saying he got 2 "old" 19" monitors and wanted his 2 "new" 19 inch monitors anyways. I was going to tell him shut his face because he was one of the people to put the analysts in a cubed environment. Bunch of whiners.
Compliments, not complaints. (But I know how you feel on that one)
 
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Well I don't get alot of compliments, but the other day I was at the gym and I saw a woman I had worked with at Intel about 16 years ago and after chatting with her she said "Wow you look great for your age! I thought you were alot younger!" That made me feel really great since I will be turning a half century in June.
Then, the next day I was with my best friend and she told me that she has never known anyone that has lived what they believe like I do, and how much that ministers to her. WOW! I started crying and told her "don't put me on any pedestal because I am no better than anyone else and we all have sinned and even though I try to live by faith, I am no better than you or anyone else". She on the other hand, is the real saint. She will help out anyone anytime with anything they need and is always taking care of her friends.
 
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Yeah, I've had a lot of commitments these days.

In response to the OP, yes I have. However, what we fail to realize is that even though one may receive compliments or positive reinforcement for our qualities, they offer little to no encouragement to those who do not believe them to begin with.

You have to see those good things in yourself if you're ever going to reap the benefits of those compliments. If you keep fishing, but don't have the bucket, you don't have any place to store all the fish once you do catch them.
 
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I rarely get compliments. I think a co-worker told me she liked my shirt a few weeks ago. I suppose I've just stopped expecting them, so it's not weird not getting them anymore. It doesn't usually negatively affect my self-esteem, but sometimes I wish somebody who's not a blood relative would say something nice.
 
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I don't usually get compliments but a few weeks ago this guy who used to go to the same college as me said on facebook that he thought that I was beautiful and that he was too shy to talk to me.

:)

Awe...that's sweet.
 
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