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Compatability

Sketcher

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Blessed&Forgiven said:
However, what I think is very useful (meaning less arguments in the family) is:
- Compatibility in intellectuals, coz' it's hard to discuss your works/future ambition with someone who doesn't understand them, this might lead to temptations from work, you know when they say "I found someone else that can understand me better". This depends also on how complicated you and your partner are as well, though. I mean, my husband always like to discuss about computer, investments, economics, interest rate, shares, etc... Praise God, even though I don't know it as much as he does, but because we both have university degree, we're still connected in this subject. He even told me the main reason that he was attracted to me was because he can actually talk about all sort of different things to me.
:)

So I'll need to find a woman who's also into computer animation so she can keep up with my geekspeak?
 
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twistedsketch said:
Juat wanted to ask you married folks out there this question because I know you'll have a better answer than the single people. What things in common need to be there for two people to be compatable? Just the big things like beliefs, or should it get down to what kind of music & TV you both like as well? Also, what are some things that successful couples don't need to have in common?
One should be a man and the other a woman. They should both have a passable understanding of God's word and abide by it.
 
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